Sam Storms has an interesting post on what it can look like when a pastor exercises a domineering and bullying posture in the church:
- A man can “domineer” or “lord it over” his flock by intimidating them into doing what he wants done by holding over their heads the prospect of loss of stature and position in the church.
- A pastor domineers whenever he threatens them with stern warnings of the discipline and judgment of God, even though there is no biblical basis for doing so.
- A pastor domineers whenever he threatens them with public exposure of their sin should they not conform to his will and knuckle under to his plans.
- A pastor domineers whenever he uses the sheer force of his personality to overwhelm others and coerce their submission.
- A pastor domineers whenever he uses slick verbiage or eloquence to humiliate people into feeling ignorant or less competent than they really are.
- A pastor domineers whenever he presents himself as super-spiritual (his views came about only as the result of extensive prayer and fasting and seeking God. How could anyone then possibly disagree with him?).
- A pastor domineers whenever he exploits the natural tendency people have to elevate their spiritual leaders above the average Christian. That is to say, many Christians mistakenly think that a pastor is closer to God and more in tune with the divine will. The pastor often takes advantage of this false belief to expand his power and influence.
- A pastor domineers whenever he gains a following and support against all dissenters by guaranteeing those who stand with him that they will gain from it, either by being brought into his inner circle or by some form of promotion.
- A pastor domineers by widening the alleged gap between “clergy” and “laity.” In other words, he reinforces in them the false belief that he has a degree of access to God which they don’t.
- Related to the former is the way some pastors will make it appear that they hold sway or power over the extent to which average lay people can experience God’s grace. He presents himself in subtle (not overt) ways as the mediator between the grace of God and the average believer. In this way he can secure their loyalty for his agenda.
- He domineers by building into people a greater loyalty to himself than to God. Or he makes it appear that not to support him is to work at cross purposes with God.
- He domineers by teaching that he has a gift that enables him to understand Scripture in a way they cannot. They are led to believe they cannot trust their own interpretive conclusions and must yield at all times to his.
- He domineers by short circuiting due process, by shutting down dialogue and discussion prematurely, by not giving all concerned an opportunity to voice their opinion.
- He domineers by establishing an inviolable barrier between himself and the sheep. He either surrounds himself with staff who insulate him from contact with the people or withdraws from the daily affairs of the church in such a way that he is unavailable and unreachable.
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For instance, only 70% of churches have a Facebook presence - that's a 13% improvement from 2011 (of course mileage varies whether or not those Facebook accounts are really active).
When it comes to individual pastors, 66% have a Facebook account. That’s a mere 7% increase since 2011. And only 23% of pastors are active on Twitter.
If you ask me these numbers should be much higher, especially when it comes to churches using Facebook. There is absolutely no reason why a church shouldn't have an active Facebook page. It is free, it's is easy to set-up and manage, it acts as a helpful front door for visitors, it connects with people who already attend the church, it reaches people the church may not easily reach...etc.