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How To Leave Your Church - And Do It Well!

If you are a pastor, then you understand the feelings when someone or a family leaves your church. Even though you may do everything you can to close the "backdoor", it is inevitable that people are going to leave your church.

So how do you encourage people to leave "well", if they are already determined to leave?

Below are a couple of great thoughts on how to leave well. (I have posted Jolley's thoughts in full)

Putting Asunder: Some Thoughts on How to Quit Your Church by Reed Jolley
After ten great years, it’s time for our family to leave this church. She said this over a cup of coffee and with a hint of tears in her eyes. She wanted me to know that their family’s sojourn with Santa Barbara Community Church had been a pleasant one, that they had grown in their faith, and that they would miss the people. She wanted to express her gratitude and let me know why they needed to leave….

It’s fairly easy to find a book or an article that tells you how to choose and join a church. Eugene Peterson, for example, writes in one of his books that it’s a good idea to choose the church that is the smallest and closest to your home. On the other hand, Ted Haggard says somewhere that we should ask where God seems to be moving and then get as near to that place as possible. Fair enough. But what about leaving a church? American evangelicals shuffle all too often from church to church, following the movements and fancies of the moment, but that’s not what I’m addressing here. I’m talking about when there are legitimate reasons for leaving a local body of believers.

First, however, let me say that our loyalty to our church should be stronger than our attraction to the better praise band down the street or to the in-depth preacher who just took a job at the church on the corner. Leaving a church should feel like leaving a marriage. It should hurt because we have lived our lives with a group of people, and now we are leaving. But, again, there are legitimate reasons to leave. Doctrinal considerations or the specific needs of our children are, for instance, two valid reasons for leaving a church. When a church is moving in a direction that an individual or a family feels is contrary to God’s Word, that is another prudent reason for making a change.

But how should one leave? The usual method is to slither out the back door with the hope that no one notices. Over the years I’ve had numerous conversations with people who have left Santa Barbara Community Church, conversations that are sometimes embarrassing and sometimes hurtful. Haven’t seen you in a while, I say as we pass on State Street. Is everything okay? Then I learn that this person has moved to another church for whatever reason. I’m quick to try to relieve the embarrassment. Assuming this person has moved to a good church, I say something like Well, may God bless you and keep you. . . That’s a great church, and I’m sure it will be better with you in it. We’re all on the same team in the Body of Christ. We’ll miss you.

But these conversations—while cordial and sincere—are hurtful because they happen accidentally. A serendipitous encounter at the grocery store should not be the moment to announce that three months ago you left your church. When I have these encounters, I find myself thinking as a pastor, I’ve prayed for this person and invested my life in this family. I performed his wedding and dedicated his baby. Besides, aren’t we members of the same church universal? How could he and his family leave without so much as a good-bye?

So how do we leave a church? I offer the following suggestions: 


First, leave deliberately. Don’t slither or slide. Don’t wander hither and yonder. When it’s time to go, go—and then go become an integral part of another good, Bible-believing, Christ-saturated church. The New Testament knows nothing of individual believers taking a little from here and sampling a little from over there. The biblical doctrine of the church describes a body of believers deeply committed to Christ and to one another.

Second, go graciously. Has your theology changed to the extent that you need to join a different church? Have the needs of your family or your work schedule compelled you to make a move? Fine. Move, but move graciously. Resist the temptation to concentrate on the warts and blemishes of the church you are leaving. (You’ll find, soon enough, that your new church has a few of these too!) It is important that you leave your church graciously and join your new church graciously. Eugene Peterson writes:

Every time I move to a new community, I find a church close by and join it—committing myself to worship and work with that company of God's people. I've never been anything other than disappointed. Everyone turns out to be biblical, through and through: murmurers, complainers, the faithless, the inconstant, those plagued with doubt and riddled with sin, boring moralizers, glamorous secularizers. Every once in a while a shaft of blazing beauty seems to break out of nowhere and illuminate these companies, and then I see what my sin-dulled eyes had missed: Word of God-shaped, Holy Spirit-created lives of sacrificial humility, incredible courage, heroic virtue, holy praise, joyful suffering, constant prayer, persevering obedience.

Third, go thankfully. I write as a man who has been a pastor of the same church for almost three decades. During these years many people have left our church (some of them because of me). To be honest, some of the people who have left I don’t miss much. And others I miss sorely. But I always appreciate the one who takes the trouble to say good-bye.

Embarrassing or awkward as it may be, have an exit interview with one of the leaders, elders, or pastors of the church you are leaving. Explain the reasons for your departure, express your gratitude for their hard work, and commit yourself to praying for the church with which you will no longer be associated. These exit interviews are rare, but they are sweet. Pastors care about people. So when someone comes to me, shares where God seems to be leading her, and gives thanks for her season of involvement at SBCC, I beam with joy. Pastors are not running a business and trying to get more customers. Pastors are shepherds of a flock. On our good days we are not jealous of our sheep; we have their best interests at heart. Still, it is rarely easy to hear someone say, I gotta go. . . In fact, it always hurts. But the pain is softened when we learn that he or she is going to settle in a godly congregation of Christ-exalting believers. After all, we’re on the same team working for the same purposes.

Church membership and church involvement are serious undertakings. When we meet Christ, we are saved into the church. The Bible speaks of our being members of one another (Romans 12:4-5). We are joined together in Christ (Ephesians 4:15-16). We eat from one loaf and drink from one cup (Ephesians 4:4-5). We are to carry one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2). We might even find ourselves selling our property in order to meet another’s needs (Acts 4:32ff.). We are to be a forgiving community (Colossians 3:13) that is deeply in love with one another (John 13:34). The church is a precious gift to God’s people. Christ died to bring the church into being (Ephesians 5:25)! The church is the mantelpiece of God, the display of God’s splendor before the angels (Ephesians 3:10)! So let us take care that we cherish the organism that Christ suffered to create—and may God bless his church!

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A couple of years ago I had some folk leave who didn't do it so well. They were unhappy (as am I) with developments in our denomination with regard to homosexuality. The way the leaving was done caused unnecessary pain. Had they followed the wise counsel above, I suspect the pain would have been considerably reduced.

Gene, I think that is the key. There will always be pain in leaving, that is inevitable. But the key is reducing the pain and avoiding unnecessary hurt.

i recently left my church of 4 years. i tried to talk with them but still felt God wanted my to leave. i felt pushed in a corner and condemned and I don't know what i did. Everytime I was serving, I felt criticized. i ultimately did not show up for children's ministry of only 2 children on the church's anniversary, which I am not proud of, but they would not take no for an answer. i think you can try to leave the right way, but some churches do not listen to their flock. i am okay with my decision. They still want to talk to resolve this, but i feel i have moved on. i could write a letter, but i don't think it would accomplish much, because i am angry about the treatment i received. Any suggestions?

Not knowing all the particulars...I would say by "resolving it", if they mean to have you come back, that doesn't need to be pursued..you've moved on.

But you've not moved on emotionally, you did say you are angry. And perhaps you need to have a face to face for closure. so you can express you hurt and feelings, they can hear it, and you can hear their thoughts and perspectives. It may give you closure and healing.

I want to leave my Church because my Pastor complains about everything I f\do as a worker of the Church, he want other people to take charge because they believe they can do a better job than I can, but where were they when I organized these posotions? I don't feel as if he should have asked me to step dowm in front of the congregation, bwfore confronting me first.

I just posted a comment and had two erros typed, please me.

will I be recieving an answer?

sure, Anonymous, I got your comment....

I am sorry that you experience this deep hurt and public humiliation. Have you had a private discussion with your pastor on how you feel?

It is very difficult leaving your church. I was a youth leader and was replaced by a married couple but the pastor wanted to me to say on as assistant leader, I resigned as I felt my season was over. Leaving the church was very difficult and I was extremely hurt by some circumstances but I left the church explaining my reasons and on good terms with the leadership, at times I visit. Sometimes we just have to be obedient to God no matter how we feel but its important not to burn bridge if that is possible but I have seen so many leave because of hurt and that is heart breaking. Thank you for this post.

It's very difficult to leave the church family that has been there for you. Everyone agrees with women being ordained as elders but I don't. I don't want to leave but I'm not comfortable with what's going on, there are some that also feel as I do but chooses to stay. I'm so confused and emotional on what I should do

@anonymous.. it is hard to make an assessment based on a thumbnail sketch of your situation...but you must weigh whether the issue you are facing is a conviction level issue...would you die on the hill over it...if so, then you may need to leave...if not, you may have the ability to stay and be there even though you don't agree with the theological stance of the church.

I serve as a layminister of church for 7 yrs. And I am thinking about leaving please pray for me.

In my current Church, we have a leader who is being allowed to break both God's laws and man's. He had a serious past issue that created much of the legal problem, but he also added to it in recent months. Multple times. This is not being addressed by our Pastor, nor Elders, and some members may not even have a clue. He has outright lied or sugar-coated his offenses and some of his issues could hurt somebody and very well destroy not only himself, but our whole Church. When my spouse and I discussed this with our Pastor, our concerns were dismissed. This man's behavior has continued to deteriorate, and now we see that we must either leave, or start an ugly battle. We may win, but at what cost? Not fighting also means this man may hurt someone, and we might have prevented it.
I want to leave right now. My spouse is torn. Any thoughts?

I would leave, don't start an ugly battle. The reason not to battle is because you've already addressed this to the pastor and have had your concerns dismissed - you would get no satisfaction in battling over it. You will just have to turn over your concerns to the Lord - it is His church and he will deal with the leader. But for now, you need to leave and find a healthy church to be a part of.

Please pray for my husband and I, as we are talking again with our Pastor and his wife about leaving our small church. The first conversation was to ask them to pray with and for us about our feelings that we might need to change churches. We are confident now, after two more weeks of praying and much confirmation in the Word and through prayer with faithful friends/advisors (we had been praying for a couple of months prior to this when the thought first came to us), and are now telling them that we have decided to go. I have a LOT of reasons why I am not comfortable there anymore, but I think the great thing is that God has just been clearing the discomfort for me and helping me to see that a lot of the discomfort came when I began to pray about something that God had originally wanted me to do. The prayer to decide to leave was innocent and, I now see, Spirit-led. It was my EMOTIONS AND FEARS that led me to consider why I might be leaving - I felt I had to have a REASON to leave - not that God was just prompting us to go. I didn't feel that could be a good enough reason. So, in the ensuing months, I found ALL kinds of reasons to leave. Hah! They were issues that were there all along, but before, I was motivated to serve anyway, and see how I could be part of the solution instead of part of the problem. After feeling led to leave, I began to think I should not have done all that. That I had been brainwashed and am now seeing the light. All of that is not true. I see that now. I am so thankful that I have seen that before the conversation I am about to have with Pastor tonight. I am going to enter the conversation with a repentant heart. I need to apologize for seeking reasons to leave, and then tell him what the truth had been from the beginning. I was just afraid to tell him we were leaving because I was afraid if I didn't have a good reason, he would be disappointed in me. It is a small church, and so many have left with no word to them whatsoever, and those who have left after speaking with them, have found that Pastor and his wife do not have a relationship with them anymore. They are often slightly slandered after leaving (everyone was just hurt, though, that is all). It was my own pride that has been getting in the way of me leaving properly. Please pray that Pastor understands and will bless us in our move. We want to do right by him. He and his wife have given us so much - even if they (or we!) have not been perfect. (sorry for the lack of clarity in parts - this is very emotional)

I am currently thinking of leaving my church.but i am so emotionally torn apart. i am confused with some of the doctrines that our church follows. but i am afraid to talk to my family and pastors about it. firstly because that will be questioning the very fundamental beliefs of the church,so i know they will not take that kindly. my parents have been in this church for more than 40 years,and i have been a member all my 25 years. i have never visited any chrch in my life but i just feel i need to leave inoder to grow spiritually. how do i do this without hurting anyone?how do i deal with the emotions of guilt that i am having?

You are certainly in a very difficult situation, since you've been in the same church for such a long time. Unfortunately there will be hurt and pain. Some people will not understand, and they will feel betrayed. In terms of making the transition, do you have any Christian friends, outside your current church, where you can visit their church with them. Visiting other churches with someone you know, can make the process much easier. Please don't despair - even through the difficulty, you will experience blessings on the other side - it may take time...and it will hurt...but you will be glad once you've arrived and planted yourself in another church, where you can grow and thrive.

Bill. I wanted to say thank you for this article/post. I left my church a month ago due to various reasons, the greater being the constant mishandling of Gods word (twisting to fit pastor's agenda,etc). I take church membership seriously and I really love local church ministry, to leave was a confusing time, questioning myself, sifting through emotions and the constant reminding myself of what God says in His word to keep me steadfast. Your points helped me a lot. I spent a much time in Scripture, took time to talk to the pastor (was ignored) and then decided it was time. I was the Church Administrator and Clerk, made sure what had to be done was in order and whoever stepped in could just step in without problems.
1. I left deliberately and there was no question I was gone. I wrote a letter and after 7 drafts settled with a simple 1 paragraph of why I couldn't serve anymore. That's how I left graciously. Though I wanted to tear up one side and down the other, I got over that emotion with God's help and moved on.

Leaving Thankfully: I was thankful to be out of there if that counts! No one has bothered to contact me and all the pastor said is "can we still be friends".
I encourage anyone to seriously evaluate their motives and methods when leaving a church they have been a part of. Don't take it lightly, the responsibility we have to the Lord and His people goes beyond personality conflicts and carpet colors. When it comes to doctrine and blatant false teaching, if you can't contend for the faith, then shake the dust from your feet.

But Bill, thank you. I read this just as my time was coming to an end at my former church and it helped me to focus and keep my exit clean and simple.

@LB, you are welcome - and I am so glad that the Lord led you to this post at this time, when you needed it most. May God bless you and lead you toward another church and body that will bring life and spiritual health and growth for you.

Bill, My family has been at the same church for almost 22 years...My husband has served at a Elder for numerous years and I have served as the music director for 19 years. We have been praying for the last several months about moving on and leaving this chapter in our lives. It is so hard to leave this church because it is our family. However we both feel spiritually drained. There have been so many blessings to us and our family throughout our time here at this church. There have also been so very difficult time as well. But God has been with us giving us strength. My husband just doesn't want to be there anymore. Until now I just felt like that was where we were suppose to be. We raised our family in this church and none of our children are attending there anymore. They have all moved on to other places. Our church is currently experiencing some financial strains we are so torn about leaving but feel that our spiritual relationship is at risk. I recently attended a family camp where the speaker talked about many of the issues I have spoken about. I am now convicted more than ever that the time for us to go is now....I know that God is speaking to my heart and I just want to make sure that I am listening to him and not listening to me....After reading this article I just want to make sure that we do right by God, the Church and our family in Christ..

Well, the positive thing from your comments is that you aren't just being capricious and leaving, but rather you are being prayerful and sober about it. It sounds like you have any indication that the Lord is calling you to move on...the difficulties you are facing are the feelings of guilt and fear of the unknown as you move forward. Those are natural. Truly the next steps are going to be the most important. Leaving well.. Doing it with grace and in a way that honors the church, the people, the pastor and Christ. I have other articles on my site that talk about how to move forward in that process, that might be of help.

I hate my church I really do, what happened was when I was first saved I was asked to join to get baptised, the truth is I was Catholic before and I was baptised before and have no interest in baptised again. I was asked by a women in the church and I said I would think about the truth, I was really just thinking of a way to tell her in the nicest posible way that I rather jump of cliff than have my head dunked under water in a dress infront of hundred people. Number 1 its a show, God don't care its a badge of honour for these people, baptising catholics its like sending a sheep to the lambs. Back to the story after service on Sunday said to me "I told the pastor your going to be baptisted" she smiled I should be happy about this, I was shocked that someone could make that sort of decition for me. After that I really don't like my church, I have been looking around for a church but because I have no transport and I have to look after my mother I can't travel to far because I can't leave her that long by herself. My friend said leaving a church its a great way of backsliding. So here is the problem I don't really wanna leave because even doe tha women is annoying and so is the pastor and his wife, I do have friends at the church and haven't been to church in two weeks. I miss my friend but I really dont like my church.

I am sorry that you are going through this...obviously not being intimately involved in all the particulars and details, it's hard for me to advise...except for the fact that it is important that you find a church body where you are cared for, spiritually feed, and a place that isn't spiritually abusive.

Thank you for this post.

I have been with this church for 25 years right after I became born again. I was the first one in my family and now all of them attend the same church. Most of us have been faithfully serving this church-family in different ministries starting on my 15th year in the church. In no other time have I thought bad or unwell of our leaders and when there are people who say otherwise or say their questions out loud I would be the first one to lovingly point them to the discipline of submitting to authorities.

But recently God opened my eyes to some practices our leaders has been doing that does not match with God's word. It was a terrible time for me personally as I struggled with the realization and what and how to go from hereon. It was worse than experiencing death in the family to realize how some of the practices in the church are actually against God's word. I felt personally betrayed. The idea seemed preposterous at first but soon the truth just clicked in my brain. It explained away all the many little questions that I had at the back of my mind which I did not heed to before. But in God's mercy and grace I was able to make sense of it and is now planning on taking a leave from my ministries and with some courage and more prayer I would hope to deliberately resign from said church. It is so difficult because of all the friends I have there which I already consider as family. I cannot tell these friends yet what is my real reason for fear that they will encounter the same incredulity and struggles I went through. What if I was wrong? I wished I was wrong but God would not let me sleep and kept me awake at nights with the things He opened to me in His word and through witnesses/experiences. I asked these friends in church to understand why I cannot tell the leaders yet and also them of all my reasons but they would not allow me to even take a leave and gave me reasons of how I am vital to the ministry and how they value me in the team. I spoke to one of our elders and same thing they would not allow me to take a leave. I do not want to be in this situation but I also would not want to influence them if what I am about to say would mean their world will crumble as I have experienced with the discovery of these things. I know that with God's help I have nothing to fear in speaking out what's true but Im torn with the thought of causing them pain. I know that sometimes we need to hurt people if we truly love them. But its not easy. God impressed upon me to wait it out and things will be more clear. And that He is sovereign and no one can thwart His plans.

Thanks for your post because Ive been reading so much about cultic christianity, how to identify if you are in one, etc, before this and reading this post somehow balances what Ive learned with having the heart for the people in my church who are as blind as I was before.

Do you think I was going about this in a way that is still pleasing to God? Because after learning these unbiblical practices I was so scared that I will continue to mislead the teams/ppl that they have entrusted to me that's why I asked to take a leave first so I wont take part in any of them with the hope I can resign right after I make full sense of everything in God's perfect time.

But if one must leave as you said one must do it deliberately, graciously and thankfully.

C.Bessy

Dear C.Bessy, I hope you understand that it is hard to answer your questions fully, since I am not privy to all the details and circumstances. But the fact that you continue to struggle with this issue, may be God's prompting for you to make a break. Too often the difficulties we face are our own. Our own fears. Our own insecurities. I know that it is risky to make that break,and there may be some blowback and fallout...but if you are leading on God for wisdom and moving forward with humility and seek Him, then God will give you the strength to push through the hardship and difficulty. Because no matter how difficult a situation one may leave, it is always sad and emotional. It is like a divorce.

I hope you find the strength and wisdom you need in this very trying and difficult situation and are able to come through it with your faith strong.

Wow

This article is so helpful. I have been searching the net for 3 years for an article like this. I am glad I only found it now. As back then my heart was filled with bitterness and resentment towards my leaders. As I could not find anything that had set guidelines to assist a church move. I went on my knees and ask God to clear my heart and deliver me from all negative feelings.

I stayed and God has brought about great change in me and the church. It is not perfect (but what church is) but it is making progress.

I am finally leaving and was experiencing great pain and guilt. My pastor also made me feel this way as he said I was abandoning the church and demanded I give a reason why I was leaving. He kept on stressing that we are all happy and have no issues and with one another. Though there are many things that I did not like at the church, I was willing to work pass them and address each issue at a time but my time was up. I had no reason apart form that reason "The Lord is leading me".

My pastor simply said If was starting my own church, he would be happier about the decision as he could be apart of it but he was not happy about me moving on to help another church. He was ready to support a new church plant asap, but my heart was for other local ministries who needed help to train people and reach the local community.

To be honest I have been waiting for this deep pain to leave and have remained at the church, though I have had many nudging by the holy spirit and confirmation from respected ministers I have not gone. It took me a while to get over the teaching they taught that you will be cursed for leaving and things might not go well and the only way you can leave a church is if God speaks to the leaders that it is time to send you out. Studying the bible helped me realize that this is not true and not in the bible. It is a tool of manipulation.

Now the pastor and his wife have preached about being faithful, betrayal of the ministry and abandoning people every service since I spoke with him. It is getting uncomfortable and really do not want to be there. He has totally ignored my wish to leave (which they have done over the years)I fully understand the pain form both perspectives but I wish people would not hold onto people like this and I pray God gives me the strength not to be the same and hold on to the team or church members at this new place. God uses people to build church and us leaders must be careful that we do not forget it is God that builds and stop thinking our churches will not grow without certain people.

I am going to have to be deliberate (Bill) and just go (very painful). I have been here for 12 years and the only person who has remained from the original people who was there in the beginning.

As he has always rejected my leaving, it seems giving notices to leave mean nothing as he ignores and does not tell the church members.


I pray readers of this blog and comments keep a pure heart and if you have any bitterness please ask our Father in heaven for help. I pray you become planted and committed wherever God has placed you.

Thanks again.

Pastor M

@Pastor M - thank you for your honesty and sharing your heart and story. I pray that God gives you courage and His peace and power as you go in obedience to His call.

May God bless you, bill

@Bill:

Thank you so much for yr thoughtful and prayerful reply.

I have been continually praying about the situation. Finally one of the elders now allowed me to take a sabbatical leave from one of the ministries I'm handling. By God's grace during that talk I was able to open up some of the concerns and the elder responded with an open heart and we prayed together about it.

I have now talked to the other elder to allow me to take a leave from the other ministry as well but he would not say yes. God taught me how to use this as an opportunity to continue to love him - in short, to be patient, respectful etc, since they are only speaking from blindness. Like the first one, I also said I will pray some more about it before coming to a final decision. In that talk God allowed me to reinforce to him my allegiance to God beyond that of ministry responsibilities. God has not allowed me yet to open up with him certain things that I was able to open up with the first elder since he still views even taking a leave from the ministry as tantamount to betrayal of God's calling. I am humbled that even in these difficult times God continues to teach me how to go beyond all that is seen, beyond myself and learn how to love others with His love.

Thank you again for your post but more so for your prayers. Truly God's love casts out all fear.

- c. bessy

I am so glad I found this article. I left my church, the one that I grew up in and attended all of my life about a year ago. My parents left about 4 years before me and it was painful but I stayed. My pastor married me and my husband but shortly after we married and had the birth of our two children 13 months a part we were strained on making the 200 mile round trip journey to a church. We had been making this drive for years as singles and it just never seemed it was enough. If we were late we would hear comments about how lateness is a lukewarm spirit. If we only attended one service then we were not vested in our spirital growth. Never mind the hardship financially and physically as we spent the time in between services camped out at the church with other families who traveled the same distance. It became burdensome to attend church. My husband and I had a decsion to make conerning our family that we made without getting counsel from our pastor, he admonished us for going over his "Godly counsel" and that was the breaking point. All of my life I had been taught to submit on issues that I didn't see due to Godly counsel on the issue. A year later we are at a good church that has provided us love and healing but I still feel guilt for leaving because I am friends with members who still attend. It has been said that if you can resolve and issue with the ministry you should still be able to attend the church and refusal to attend means you haven't resolved the issue. I am clear in my heart. I still have pain because I grew up in that church from the age of 2, so I lost relationships I had with people all of my life. I know I am seen as not being saved because I no longer adhere to the "standards", (dress, jewlery, makeup ect) and that I believe is what hurts. We spoke to him prior to leaving and he was against it, he urged me to take a stand against my husband but I didn't want to worship seperately from him. That has caused deeper pain with my husband. Its all just a big emotional mess. Please pray for me because I don't want to not go to heaven because I don't want to attend the first and only church I have ever been to...

I want to say Thank you first that I found this forum, I am leaving a small church, whom the Pastor and all the members are family except my daughter and I. I am grateful to the church for being there for me, my daughter was baptized there but I feel it's time to leave. I been praying long and hard, I am nervous because they are very much controlling. I ofter go to church feeling worse than I did when I came. Can you give any advice of what to say. I really don't want to do a face to face because what should be a cordial exit will definitely turn out ugly. HELP!

Here are a couple points...

Write it out in a letter and send it.
Be firm..that you are leaving...don't say I "feel" it's time to leave...you must be more determined, clear and definite..i.e use Active tenses rather than passive tense in the wording of your letter. Because if you sound undetermined, unclear, or uncertain - they are going to feel compelled to want to talk you out of it.

Also, be thankful...like you were in your comments...that you are grateful for them at a previous time in your life, keep it positive, promise in the letter that you will not speak negatively about the church upon you leaving etc...

Those are just some thoughts,

bill

This post is so helpful. My husband and I are leaving our current church simply for lack of community. We are one of the few young married couples w/o kids (we are newlyweds) and we've tried this whole year to build up friendships with very little success. Our pastors have a lot invested in us and we love them dearly, and leaving this church really does feel like a terrible break-up. WE want it to work oh-so-badly, but it just isn't working. Thanks for the encouragement and validation. We hope to leave on great terms, to be thankful for what we had while we had it, and to move forward in a new place.

I am glad Katie that you found the post helpful. And truly, leaving a church does feel like a breakup...it can be very painful. I trust the big issue is that because everyone is at a different age and stage that you all are at, it has made it difficult to forge relationships.

As you leave, please take to heart the post and do all you can to validate and encourage your spiritual Shepherds.

Having been a pastor, and seeing this situation through their eyes, let me tell you that this is going to be hard for them to hear that you are leaving, because since you said that most of what you've experienced has been good, insofar as the care and investment of the spiritual leaders, they may find it hard to understand your need to leave.

But ultimately we must do and go where God directs, and of course you can't remain in a church, merely to please others. But I fear that it will be a very painful parting for both you and them. But even with the pain, it can be done with grace, charity, love, respect and honor.

Hi Bill, thank you for being courageous in writing this article.

Right now I am in sort of a problem. I have been part of this small church for about 8 years now. I was saved and baptized in it, am leaderof youth ministry and am engaged to the pastor's son. As I grew closer to them (pastor's family), I noticed how imperfect they really are, which is pretty normal. However, conflicts started with his family about me even before we were engaged (fiancee's sisters disliked me). Even now that we are engaged they do not want a relationship with me. I have never understood why, as I have confronted them but got nothing out of it. Only that they did not like my background of non-christian family. I am first-generation christian, and I praise God that I was able to bring my family(two younger sisters,15yrs & 16yrs, and my single mother). After long years of prayer, God answered them. They were finally here with me. My mom later moved to another church with her new fiancee, leaving my sisters with me.
The problems came after my sister of 16 years started having a sexual relationship with a 21 year old guy at church. The problem? The guy is the bro-in-law of my fiancee's sister. Obviously, when the pastor found out of this, he did what he as a pastor would do, put them both in discipline. However, my sister came out and told us that the guy was manipulating her into having sex with her. I told the pastor and all he said he already did what he was supposed too and will counsel the guy.
The other problem? My sister no longer feels comfortable at this church due to the guy being there. Now this is where I am stuck, I feelit would be best for my two sisters and I to leave church for this problem but then my fiancee does not want to leave due to the pastor is his dad. I have prayed and prayed but I feel desperate for having my sister in this pain and having to have to choose. I feel that I will not loose my sister that I have longed fought and pray for be away from church when I can help her. But then my fiancee will never leave his family. We have both talked about it,but we have decided to goour own way. I feel I can not let myfamily down. It hurts me to leave my church that I call family because of my young sisters sin. But i feel deep within that I need to do this for her....please give me advise.

..oh and I forgot to mention the way his sisters started being with my sisters and I after this all came out. I have never meet any other women so proud and hypocritical like them.

I have been at my church for 25 years. We have a new pastor for the last 7. At the end of a church service I wanted to share something I felt was from the Lord. The pastor yelled stop and then preceed to yell that I was out of line. This was done in front of the congregation. He did not attempt to talk with me. I had to ask for a meeting twice. It took a whole month before he would meet with me. During that time he talked to other members of the congregation, even one who was not present at the service. I took an elder with me when he finally agreed to meet with me. He said he had a problem with me for a long time, and that I was attention seeking by giving to long of testimonies, going up for prayer to much and that he did not believe in my gift for vision. I tried to be respectful during that whole time. I did not gossip and it caused great anxiety for me. When I asked him why he talked to others before he talked to me he just said well that person had been a long standing member. It is a very small church of about 25 people. We have not grown in a long time. He said I could stay if I could sit under his authority. He expected an apology from me and told me I owed Go one to. I feel beat up after sermons and desire sermons that I can use through out the week in a very stressful job. Now I have a meber of the church who is saying I am wrong for leaving that others will follow. I thinks she thinks I am being selfish. I felt like when I left the meeting that night that I had been released. Even the elder I was with said she did not blame me for leaving. I have another church I have been going to and I am very happy there. I feel like my life has purpose there. I am torn by leaving my friends and do not want the church to fall apart on account of my leaving. This church member is making me feel that it will be my fault if the church falls apart. please help, any advise or encouragement would be helpful.

We're thinking about leaving our church. We just don't feel the same connection to the people there. The church is changing the name and turning the worship service into more of a "show" with lighting and multi media presentations. My wife and I lead two ministries and I am the announcer during worship service. I've seen other people leave that have done it poorly-mass emails, gossip, etc. The best way to leave is to just let the pastor know we won't be leading our teams any longer and just go, correct?

The best way is to leave by telling the pastor - affirm the people and issues of the church where you can and gently let them know that the church is going in another director that you all don't feel led into. Help you church find your replacements for the teams that you lead also...do what you can to leave graciously and in a God-honoring way...

I was widowed for several years and very close to retirement when I joined my church four years ago. I quietly and steadily volunteered in doing what was needed around the church. Often times I was told my help was not needed. I joined a Bible study group organized by a seminary and led by mentors in my church. It is a four year course with a one year commitment for each year. Participants were in all years. I was the only first year student. Each week, each participant had to discuss the lesson. I took great pride in my study and research. On the fourth week, the mentor interrupted my talk and told me to finish up as I had a tendency to get carried away. I was so hurt. I arranged to speak to the rector to see how to smooth things over with the mentor. When I explained the situation, he said the mentor was a great friend of his and he was highly respected. End of our talk. I completed my first year with some reservations.
I was voted in by church members to become part of the Vestry. One of my new responsibilities was to start up a particular group of members. The rector and I met to discuss how to get more involvement from the church members. Sign-up sheets were distributed and the response was very encouraging. Some elected to meet during the week (day and/or night), some weekends, etc. When it came time to fully implement, the rector did a 180 and reversed everything that was in place and announced that they groups could only meet on Wednesday evenings. Some members became quite vocal in saying I was not honest in signing up people.The group concept never took off. I was blamed.
In early fall of this year, I was diagnosed with cancer. I have been hospitalized three times. Under physician orders, I cannot attend any large gatherings, visitors and family members must be healthy, etc. As a result, I am not currently attending Sunday services. Although the church as an In-Reach program, I have never been contacted. The only communication from the rector was almost a month after my diagnosis and it was an email. He stated that we were long overdue to speak. Would l like it to be via phone or in person and to let him know.
I really need(ed) some pastoral care. I had one phone call from a church member following my diagnosis and she want ed to know if after my first chemo treatment it gave me more energy. Only one church member has visited. Her concern is that I will leave the church and go somewhere else. She stated that the rector is not strong in pastoral care and I should accept it.
I have another church in mind. I’ve met several of the members. They are very outgoing, friendly, and welcoming. They do not know of my intentions as yet. I do not want to criticize my former church but need to know how to answer questions that might arise on changing churches. I want to do this graciously.

Thank you from someone who needs guidance.

Thanks for this post. I'm getting tired of going to my church because I feel down most Sundays -- pastor constantly preaching about the devil, how the devil-does-this, the devil-does-that, more about the devil than about Jesus. However, I'm caught in a bind, because the pastor indirectly talks about people who've left the church, saying "they will no longer grow spiritually" and "the devil is behind it". And also, that we (the flock, who are to be submitted to the pastor) should not "correct" him. (I give the benefit of the doubt here, people have said some nasty things to him in the past.)

Any tips? I've been here for years, so it is not easy, yet I'd rather be uplifted than put down on Sundays.

My family and I are dealing with the first lady saying inappropriate comments towards the congregation in public worship and it's getting worse. It's affecting my spirit-man and it's been going on for a while. I don't want my family be depleted spiritually and physically. Should we leave?

I began going to a church 3 1/2 years ago after feeling led by God to the specific church. 2 years ago my Sunday School teacher became my mentor and started to apprentice me to take over when the Lord called her home. She was diagnosed with ALS. In the last two years I took in depth bible classes in addition to a long term study I have attended for several years, went on a spiritual formation retreat, subbed, attended christian leadership training courses.

The leadership has changed several times in the church including going on a 5th pastor in 3 years! One stepped down for health reasons. One went to start a new community of faith as an extension. Spiritual leadership and guidance has decreased greatly. One of the remaining pastors has intentionally not spoken to me since before Thanksgiving and deliberately avoids me because I made a decision regarding my living situation to not leave my mother in need, that they disagree with. This pastor at Christmas made fun of homeless people in their sermon, which I found deeply offensive. Especially given I have been facing that very prospect for months with my mother. Yes this pastor knew this.

I went to the leadership for a year asking for help with practical, logistical transition planning of my class and they chose to not do anything and wait til her death. Even when it was evident that she was no longer able to return and was in her final days, my request to have a member of the pastoral care team be ready to help facilitate discussion in class was declined stating it was not appropriate to take class time. I was told to prepare a regular lesson and not let the class spend time talking about our loss. I prepared a lesson but people wanted and needed to talk share and discuss their feelings and so did I. After the funeral, leadership hauled me in and told me it was now time got a complete change in format for the.class. They no longer wanted us to do biblical exegesis but to book based studies. My class did not want to do this. I tried to explain this to leadership and that I had developed a transition that met the needs of the group, incorporated my style of leading and the skills I had been trained. Truth be told it was not much different than what my mentor had done. I thought things were ok until leadership came in my class to observe (which I did not mind) however they intentionally tried to undermine my leadership in front of my class. My class defended me and found themselves attacked and accused. I let everyone speak then shelved the rest of that days lesson in favor of individual and group prayer time. Leadership left at that point. We were all hurt. I went to speak to the senior pastor to explain how un christian and out of line the discipleship director was. I found myself ambushed by the pastors and leadership telling me I was not doing correct leading and teaching and that I did not have their support and that the discipleship director had every right to come in and get the whole class upset nor were they out of line in doing so. My personal decision to not leave my mom in need was brought up and cited as reason for their lack of support in my leadership. Needless to say I immediately revoked my membership.

I have been attending the new church plant with a former pastor and feeling accepted and supported to.share my gifts.

The irony is that for months I was sensing the Lord leading me away and I had specifically prayed for a clear direction of what to do stay our go in.the.week leading up to my revocation. God answered loud and clear with a figurative 2x4 upside my head!

Yes I miss.my class but I still am able to keep in contact with them as they need through other activities in our community or simply a phone call email or cup of coffe and word of prayer and scripture share.

Thoughts?

What an interesting issue and one you don't find discussed many places. We left two churches in the last six years. The first we had been at for 15 years when it joined a spiritually dangerous group and hired a spiritually dangerous leader.pastor kicked out the board, wrote up his own statement of faith and started summarily excommunicating people who (very gently)criticized some of these practices. Many more toxic behaviors happened here. After two years, almost no one there when the man came remained. This church had become toxic and had all the marks of spiritual abuse. We were kicked out of that church after trying every way possible to be peacemakers, and most of the church had left. The second church began going into a church growth movement, market-model direction, and we were afraid that since our family was newly damaged from the last church, we didn't need more conflict, so we left quietly, but I wrote a letter to the pastor telling him how much the church had done for us, how much we loved the people and how hard it was to leave. I did voice my concerns about direction, but not in a blaming way. It pretty much followed your pattern here. I heard back from the pastor and we left on good terms. Many, many people there are Facebook friends today. I think it's important to distinguish between healthy and spiritually dangerous churches when you advise people how to leave. After researching spiritual abuse, I know now that there are some churches so poisonous and cult-like in practice that you must get out as soon as you can, for your family's sake.

I am sorry for your experience...and certainly you are right if there is spiritual abuse...you must leave at all cost...just like marital abuse. But too often people leave for all kinds of reasons, and too often they don't leave well, causing contention and sometimes division.

I did post on my other blog, the issue of abuse...so I do think it is worth addressing: http://www.provocativechurch.com/2010/04/is-your-church-abusive.html

This is a great article. Thank you. My husband and I have been attending our small church for about 4 years now, and we're feeling called to go elsewhere. There are several reasons for this, and I've tried to separate the petty, emotionally based reasons from the important spiritually based ones. Basically there is no youth group and I have 2 almost-middle-schoolers who I want to get involved in missions and the whole youth group "thing". Also, the pastor has a way of starting the sermon with the point he wants to make, then cherry-picking Scripture to support his POV, rather than taking apart Scripture in context to find out what is GOD's POV. Third, I've been teaching Sunday School for 3 of those 4 years and I've stepped down twice, only to be begged, guilted, and pressured into teaching again. I've enjoyed teaching, God has certainly equipped me to fill that need at the church, but it is NOT where my heart is. Finally, our church has NO community-focused outreach. Our only outreach is our sister church in Africa, which is a noble outreach to have, but it saddens me that our church is better known on another continent than it is in our own city. I've tried to get some things going within the community, but it has required me to step away from teaching, therefore being guilt tripped once again. One of the bigger emotional reasons for wanting to leave is that the pastor, his wife, and a few other couples who are in leadership, preach home schooling like it's Gospel. I have no problem with home schooling, but I really don't appreciate being told all the evils of public schools, over and over again, when the decision to go to public school WAS a very prayerful and purposeful one. They do the same thing with politics...almost weekly we get a paragraph of the sermon devoted to the unborn, homosexual marriage, and other wedge issues, and a couple of the elders have even publicly insulted our President from the pulpit! They preach "love", but their side comments and actions say "hate" or "gross indifference". And yet, almost weekly, we get another chunk of the sermon devoted to "why not to leave our church" and how no one's perfect, it hurts Pastor's feelings, etc.
Anyway, thanks for making me feel that my reasons are the right ones, and giving me an exit strategy. I'm hearing God's call even louder now. Be blessed.

I have been at my church for 7 years now..my pastor has become more focused on the prosperity gospel and we work more on fund-raising...me and my pastor had major issues two years ago..it was very painful but I stayed on...he treats me differently now.. I have out grown the church and feel I don't fit in anymore....my heart is not there anymore..someone asked me @ a printing shop r u happy @ ur church...I couldn't answer the question.....I am wrestling with leaving because 7 years is a long time....and I am worried about finding a new church...

I am thinking about leaving my church,seems I have done something wrong,I don't know,but we have church every night and I just can't be there every night,and now I am called immature because I got upset over a sermon that was preached on disobedience,I did not get upset about Gods Word,but when we were told we should feel like a wretch,I was a little upset,well alot upset.Whats your opinion on this?

I am thinking of leaving my church too because the pastor's wife is always pestering me why I did not come to church last week wanting an excuse from me...whatever the reasons it's between God and me. The pastor's wife told me that next time if I am going to be out, I need to tell the church and I was shocked by this request. I often see the pastor's wife forcing people up to the front to repent and pray which I do not agree because I feel that the person must be ready on their own term, not pushed around or shoved up front...we've lost church members by this practices..Also the pastor constantly preaches to the congregation on how it's unholy to wear pants to church and women must always wear dresses to church...the pastor does this everytime he sees me in a pant...I love God very much and I try very hard to please God spiritually but I also feel that God accepts me for my heart and not my physical looks and this "must wear dress" doctrine is getting to me. Also, the church has ask and gathered the congregation in a rush to donate money to purchase a van for the church of which I donated but it's been almost a year and they have not follow through with the van purchase yet which makes me feel as if they lied to the congregation. Any feedback?

Hi bill, I have been attentding a local church for about 4 years , my pastors and i and a few others all literally grew up spiritually at the same time. but then i started to mature rapidly with the lord, and trying to find my gift and calling that the lord had for me , all the other leaders about 2 of them ( my church was only about 15) started to be disturbed by me and my love for god,bashing me talking behind my back, i was never arrogant , i was always helpful and loving , but they were in the 'WORLD" at the same time , ( later on they all confessed they were jelouse that i had been obident to God) , i wasnt perfect i had my bumps but i always got up and seeked the lord . well that went on for about 4 months , i held on , till i couldnt take it anymore and spoke to the pastors , they told me to hold on , so i stayed in the church , so i started to run again seeking the lord and serving as a leader , worship leader, etc,and again after a recent retreat , my pastors started to relly condemn me , and talk about me in the church in humiliation. because i had visited a church of a friend of mines , i asked permission from the pastor he said yes , me and a couple of leaders were all suppost to go but they bailed on me , because one of them didnt feel comfortable praying with other " unknown people" and the other one was busy , i didnt wanna go alone but the spirirt led me there and i was bieng convited to go , i had never been to this church or met any of people exept my friend , so i wnet and the most wonderful thing hapopened to me , the pastor of the church had told me that the lord had told him the calling for my life i was going to be worship and songwritter and also the lord told him to tell me my gift ,( i had never met this pastor or any of these people in my life) which were evangelism and leadership. the following week i gave my testimony at church thinking my pastors were going to be happy with what the lord had instore for me and that i finally know my calling and part in the body of christ,but then that following week my pastor started to talk bad about what happened , and really judging me and kind of calling me out for what had happened to me , i guess he was a little upset i dindt find my calling and gift with them instead , and ive been with them for 4 years, but that really hurt me , also the forabout 2 months somethings had been telling me its time to move on , but i kept ignoring it thinking its just my feelings , but i fasted and prayed and it wont leave, that feeling and with the events that has been happening to me lately , i feel as if i should go , its definently the holy spirirt and not my emotions anymore that i thought it was, but how do i leave , its so hurtful and i just dont know what to do.

I talked to God last night about what He wants me to do as a member of United Christian Inner-City Ministry in Roanoke, VA. With knowing how the head Pastor (Mike English) has become from when I started there, he has become more and more hateful and demanding as well as his wife. They are not showing love as Jesus shows to all of us. With all the problems, God had told me many times before when I had thoughts about what should I do, He said to stay for the time being. Last night, however, He told me that it was time to move on. I prayed and talked to Him and waited in meditation for His answer. He told me it is time to move on. So I will do so. Would this be the right choice? I believe so. God did not say why, He just said to simply move on to another fellowship (church) and continue worshiping Him.

I have been a member of my church for 4 years. I love it and have grown a lot spiritually. However, lately I'm very troubled. My boyfriend and I broke up recently and he still goes there. It's very hard for me to see him and especially hard for me to see him talk with other single women there. I don't want to leave my church but I also don't want to be hindered or to be a hinderence because of my feelings. I don't know what to do. Any advice?

After years of going to a traditional church where we had the feeling of lacking the presence of the Lord we started praying and after a few months the Lord talked to us about starting a House Church in the Netherlands.Since 01-06-2011 we started the Dutch House Church Huisgemeente Abba Vader ( http://www.huisgemeente.be/ )and now we experience the Lord like never before.So much love and power.Now we are true disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ.

I am praying over leaving my church job as well. The abuse by the Pastor's wife, who also runs the church, is beyond my abiity to cope. The depression from the ridiculous and random decisions that are made is mind blowing. I can barely get up in the morning and go to work. All the decisions are based soley on money. How much money, how much money, what was the offering. It is so depressing the whole staff is sad. The comments from her are continually that people should be lucky the have jobs. If I here "Our" money one more time I might just lose it. When people talk about leaving they are branded "against God" and "losers". They talk bad about those who leave and it is taking a toll on my personal life. I need help.

How do you leave a good church gone bad?

As a Christian counselor, it is amazing to me to see how much damage is done to believers by church leadership. I'm convinced that being a pastor is one of the most difficult jobs on the planet. People can feel wounded through no real fault of church leadership and this is unfortunate but a reality of imperfect people in imperfect churches. However, I have seen also seen true and evil spiritual abuse by pastors and leaders and that is extremely damaging to the flock.

@DrDon - there are a lot of deeply wounded people in the church, wounding each other! We all need to grasp tightly to the gospel

@Anonymous - alway realize that when leaving a church, no matter how bad, it is still Christ's church...so leave in a way that glorifies Him, with dignity and respect to the cause of Christ...I know that can be hard, especially if you've been hurt...but it is real important.

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Would you recommend leaving a church because of a potentially adulterous situation--even if it is only emotional?

@Anonymous.... your language is confusing...you say "potentially" not sure what you are trying to say with that word? But obviously unrepentant moral behavior certainly provides grounds to leave.

I have been attending a church for years now. This church has been very beneficial towards me and my family and my spiritual growth. However for a few months now I've realized that not everything my pastor has been preaching has been in accordance with the Bible. This has especially been affecting me for I realize that I've been living more according to what he says and not what the Bible says. I realized this for when I would get a revelation from God about something I wouldn't have much faith in it till I heard the pastor say it and even though the Bible would state something clearly if its not what my pastor preached I'd have a hard time believing it completely... Also I realized that every time I went to church I would return home with my peace majorly disturbed and feeling heavy. And I realized that the days i missed church would be when I feel most at peace and happy. So I finally got fed up and asked God if it would be okay for me to leave and find another church. Shortly after I got a strange dream about the pastor doing things not quite Godly and basically the dream was saying to leave. However after making up my mind to leave while at church the same pastor asks for me in the middle of preaching his sermon. (basically he is hilarious when he preaches and since i sit upfront he always hears me laughing so while i was at the bathroom he noticed that he didn't hear my laugh and was asking for me, and he never does this) So after hearing that I thought what if its the Lord telling me to stay. I've been on the praise team for about 1 year now so I was thinking what if God doesn't want me to go because of that. So I spoke to God about it again and this time I didn't have such a good dream about the people in the church so I'm thinking yes I can go. But I just keep thinking what if I leave and I was wrong and God sends me back. I just wouldn't want to face them. The people at that church can be VERY judgmental of people who leave. What do you think I should do?

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Hi Bill,

I would appreciate any guidance you can provide. My family and I joined a small church four years ago when the Asst. Pastor of our previous church spun off to start his own independent Bible teaching church. We began in his living room and now occupy a school library and we have between 10-15 adults regularly attend with about 6-8 elementary aged children who attend Sunday School during church. My wife is a regular Sunday school teacher there rotating every other month; I arrive an hour early every Sunday to set up and am in charge of A/V (laptop, project, music), and 100% of our tithe goes to the church. I make a nice living, and knowing the make up of the rest of our church, there will be a pretty significant impact on church finances when we leave. Additionally, we consider the Pastor and his family as friends. Our main reason for looking to leave is that our oldest of three daughters is now 12 and she is not being served. She is too old for Sunday school lessons and not really interested in the sermons. My other daughters are 10 & 8 and will be approaching that age before long as well. Our pastor is trying to start a youth program next month, but he is leading it and there are maybe a total of 2 or 3 that would possibly attend, and I cant even guarantee that. With such a small church we don't have the resources to "feed" everyone, in particular the teenage group. My wife and I are steadfast in our faith, and I want to make sure my daughters are led downt he right path and I just dont believe our church can satisfy that need. How would you approach this departure?

Any guidance you can provide is greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

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I'm glad you brought this up, because there's very few writing on this subject. Dag Heward-Mills however has written about 8 different books on the subject of LOYALTY, including "Those who leave you", "Those who pretend", "Leaders and loyalty", just to name a few. If you've gone through a church break up, or planning to leave a church; doesn't really matter what your situation is, one of the many books by Dag Heward-Mills on Loyalty will give you a didactic teaching on the subject, that will change your life.

I decided to leave my church of 20 years about 6 months ago.I often see articles about people leaving church and how it should be done a certain way, like some kind of formula that always works well. However, I know from experience that meeting with the pastor first is not always the only way to properly leave. I had more than one meeting with my pastor in his office, mainly to try to clear some things up that were causing confusion and may have even led to division further down the road. I am a strong believer in godly confrontation but not for one minute did I forget that he is the pastor and I am not. I remained respectful and prayed before I went in each time. He gave me the same response everytime, stating that all was well between us, and insinuating that I was imagining being slighted by him.(Never mind that he actually purposely humiliated me on more than one occassion in front of the entire congregation} On the last visit with him he made me feel like there was nothing wrong and that I should carry on as I had been, as long as God was leading. Two weeks later he again purposely embarrassed me publicly and I had to seek the Lord to know what to do at that point. He lead me to the scripture to "wipe the dust off my feet", and pointed me toward another church in my general area. Although I have forgiven him, I still struggle to feel accepted in my new church, even though I trust God to help me overcome this. And a note to Maranatha John, concerning "loyalty". My first loyalty is to God Almighty and Jesus Christ his Son. I with His help will remain loyal to the One who died for me. Loyalty to a person, even a pastor, is secondary. When the pastor is abusing the sheep he actually is no longer qualified to be the leader of the sheep he is abusing. Anything or anyone who pulls me away from God and not closer to Him is not meant to be my pastor. Don't you know that this is how cults get started. People remaining loyal to pastors even when his leadership starts destroying more people than it helps? I'm not saying this is what happened with my pastor, but he was causing me so much self doubt that I had to leave to start growing again in the Lord. I feel so much lighter now than I have in the last few years, like a burden has been lifted off my shoulders. I kept forgiving one offense after another for 15 of the last 20 years. I have been married to the same wonderful but imperfect man for 34 years and love him more now than the day we married. That takes a lot of loyalty and forgiveness, and plenty of the grace of God.

In my own instance, the pastor's wife was so rude you would think that being rude was a virtue. She would go on the podium and ask all those who did not like their style to leave. I have never seen such haughtiness atop emptiness. I left because I did not want to be either polluted nor oppressed by the spirit of pride. I am not being sanctimonious but as a child of God, I know when it is time to run. I did. I wish them well and pray always that "The eyes of their understanding be enlightened. Amen."

I don't know how to "just leave" w/o the need to spread a warning to others about the guilt inducing preaching - the need to be there every - and I do mean every - time the doors are open. Tithing, attendance and giving mentioned at every service. You hear that often enough when you're giving everything you can (and some you shouldn't) it really hurts - giving to the church when your car needs work; giving to the church when you're the one that needs help; give, give, give... devouring widows houses...people need to warn others about wolves and erroneous teachings.

Perhaps you need to talk about the bad theology and doctrine that isn't filled w/ grace and do your best to leave the "personalities" out of it...if that makes sense??

My husband and i are currently considering changing churches. We are visiting local churches.i have been a member of this church for twelve years. My husband has been attending for ten years. My husband started to get very angry that on occasions any man would hug me when its time to meet and greet. He says he feels.like the men only did that to disrespect him. But every sunday when the ladies hugged him it was ok they were nice ladies.he has constantly accuse me of looking at a male or smiling at them which is not true at all.he watches me and every move i make in church. He doesnt like if i should have tears, he once told me that i looked retarded the way i was moving my head during a performance by dance ministriy. I had no ideal i was moving my head in a weird way .but he was watching me. Well it has gotten so bad that we were arguing every sunday. I do not feel free to worship when he is with me but he has to come to watch me. Now we are visiting other churches and so far each church has greeted us with a hug and of course he does not like that one. I love my husband and ifeel that i have never given him a reason to distrust me ever! Whatbam i suppose to do in this case . I have started to just extend my hand but twice ive been hugged anyway. Now i feel stressed on sundays.

Im not trying to make my husband out to be the villian . I just dont know what to to do in this situation. How do i make this better. Should i continue going to my present church. Should intalk to my pastor.even though my husband would not like it. I really would like to attend a church closer to my home but i feel the sme problem will occur.

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My husband and I are involved in our church of 300 members, he as the basist and I as a children's sunday school teacher. We have prayed for a while about leaving due to several reasons, both biblical and personal, but did not feel led by God to do so until
now. We have never had the feeling of belonging to a church family but everyone is nice and helpful. We recently decided to leave as we did feel led by God to do so. We attempted to tell our pastor in person and to give a date when to leave but we were both ignored when asked to talk to him. I know he is busy but he did not return a call and so my husband texted him to let him know which he also ignored. This sunday was our last Sunday to which the pastor, choir director and band leader, our Sunday school teacher, or any other leaders in the church even spoke to us. I had no intentions of leaving on bad terms and wanted to leave properly but in doing this we have felt shunned, let down, ignored, and hurt. Should we cut our losses or just let them know how we feel even though we have just left? I never dreamed our pastor would give us such a cold shoulder and I don't understand why.

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I have lost faith in humanity but not God. I know the two are intertwined but even a loving and compod must be so sorely disappointed in our behaviour and motivations.

I leaft the Church once and despite being very active on a volunteer basis am primed to leave again. The closer I get to the church the farther I get from God.

Sometimes I think that's God's whole purpose in requiring congregating - to challenge us to deal with all the petty and mean-spirited acts that humans are capable of. Frankly I am worn out from congregating.

I believe a "sucessful" church should be a microcosm of society. People who I'll call givers (not financial) and others I will call needers. Those roles of who falls into whichever camp changes over time with people who are needers becoming givers and vice versa.

The problems as I see it is that there are too many needers. Potential givers are so outnumbered that do not identify with an organization who will suck them dry.

Church's used to attract all walks of society nopw it seems it caters SOLELY to the victims.

I love my church and brothers in Christ. I was an active member in my ministry and helped others as well. A couple of months ago i was doing a drama for a womans group and was taken over by an incredible fear and failure feeling. I havent been the same. This past months i have been talked to by the pastors wife. When i explain to her all my mind and body confucion, she always counteracts with her having a worst situation than mine and she is still at church. I feel like they dont care. Like i have to suck it up and act like everything is all good. Whats the point of going to church then, if we allready do this things in the world. I suffer from diabetes and panic attacks. It doesnt hold me back, in two years of babtised i have accomplished mord than others who have been there more. What is holding me back is their attitude towards me. After knowing all my issues lately they wanted me to take up a leader position. I declined. They have very cafefully taken all my axtivities away. And when i say they, i mean the pastor wife and daughters. I get weird attitudes, they ignore me and i see my acti ities taken up by other ppl. I love my pastor, he talks to me to not give up. He dont know he edifies me and his fam is destroying me. I wish i was wrong. That my twsisted human mind was playing a trick on me. My family also hold leadership in church. I want to leave. But i feel God is gonna leave me too. Nobody but my husband knows this. He just prays. :'(

I am thinking of leaving my church for one much smaller. I have been a member of my church for approximately 10 years. I love my pastor, who preaches the word of God and I have grown in my faith here. I am involved in a ministry. Approximately 7 years ago I moved to another nearby state. I kept my membership here because I feel this is my family and it took me less than an hour to drive to church in the morning and approx. 45 minutes getting home. Initially I would go for bible study and prayer each week but this was becoming more difficult drivng at night due to poor eyesight(cataracts). Within the last year I began visiting a church (bible believing) that a christian couple of mine are members. The church is much smaller than the one I attend, and less than a 20 minute total drive to and from church. They have bible study and prayer during the day and I have gone here sometimes. Even though I may visit this chuch I still pay tithes and offering at my church and is there for my appointed Sundays in my ministry. Recently I had a life/death situation with a child family member who is also a member of my chuch. This couple suggested I speak to my pastor regarding the situation. I called to speak with my pastor. I explained the situation to his secretary who said she would give him the message. He did not return my call and it has been a couple of days. I don't know why he did not return the call. My thoughts are if this was someone highly visible in the church he would have returned the call. I am now thinking that maybe I should attend a church that is closer to me, where the congregation is not as big and where it would be convenient for my family member to attend children activities. As I said before most of these activities are at night at my church and eyesight is poor with night highway driving. However, I can drive back and forth at night locally within a short distance. Also when I thought about it, this couple, another relative of mine who lives out of state (near me) and attends her previous church as well as a friend who recently moved South when they have called their pastor he has returned their calls. I know the pastor is busy maybe too busy. I don't even want my friends or family to know he did not return the call. I was able to reach someone in the ministry I am invloved to speak with as I had her direct number.

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I've been browsing this and other articles for awhile now. I plan to leave my church which my family has attended for 200+ years. It is a VERY strict church (in multiple communities) where it is believed that they are the only ones in living faith and all non-members will burn in hell. I'm 24 and it has taken many years of shaky faith before I've finally come to the terms with the fact that God put millions of his people on this earth and there can't be only 30,000 going to heaven.
Now that I've made up my mind (not a single living person knows of this), I need to plan my exit strategy. My first instinct is to flee the state, possibly the country, and start anew. I know this is not the smart way, but the easy way. I want to do this right. When I do break the news, my family is going to be brought to their knees. I hope that my mother doesn't go into cardiac arrest. I am not joking, this is how serious a matter it is to leave. I will be condemned in their eyes. I can already hear the things they will be saying. It helps that I know that how I believe is true, I also plan to find a therapist to help me to take the steps. I don't know how I'm going to take it if my family totally cuts me off. I obviously have a heart full of love for them and life could get rough coming up.
The question I have is, how do I leave? I won't write a letter because I think they would use it to show how the devil is so quick to steal Gods children, I could see it being construed in a false manner. I don't know if I should talk to one of our Preachers? I think they would try to convince me to stay and their parting words would be that I am going to hell. Should I bother? Or should I run for my life?
HELP please!

it is very difficult to give you great advice being that I am removed from you and the exact details of your situation...but everything you shared seemed very alarming...and almost cult-like...

it sounds like you need to leave and leave fast.

Hi Bill, firstly I want to thank God for this platform that enables us to voice out our concerns in leaving our churches. I too, have been in my church for 10 solid years and in 2010, I had to leave for the whole year to be a member of another church. The manner in which I left my church was grudgy and bitter towards my pastor.Although I love him and the members of the church, I just was not happy with him sometimes in the manner in which he spoke and still speaks to us. There is so much of detail that I can share, but since this is about me, I will spare you the details.

In 2011, after being away for the whole of 2010, I went back to my church of origin. I figured that I had to repent and continue serving in the church. Unfortunately, as would be expected, the services I used to offer in the church had other peaople provide and I was left to just be an attending member which at first, thinking it would only last a while, I was quite content and ubderstanding. I then realized that I could no longer be this way as I have also ceased to grow. In my church, only the pastor has a say, and his eldest daughter. The rest of us just get told what to do and what ministries within the church we ought to be a part of and this is without consent on our part.

Due to our pastor wanting to take charge of everything and interfering with everything that everyone is doing, growth is thus hindered. We are not free in praising God, but don't get me wrong, because the Word is God's, whenever he preaches, it always finds a place in our hearts. When I look back at the year when I was in another church, I see how much I have grown and that left me with an even more hunger to grow closer in my walk with God and there is pleanty of room to share of the gifts and talents that God has given me to the benefit of the body of Christ as a whole.

The most difficult thing is to speak to my pastor about my intentions to leave as he might want to know why and he is not very open to any kind of criticism or confrontation, no matter the manner it is put across. Many are members that have left our church and he always blames them for wrong-doing, yet other memebrs in the church can see that he is very much part of the reason and nobody wants to confront him as he would say that the word of God say touch not my annointed and do my prophets no harm. It's either his way or no way.

yes, agreed - I hope and trust this has been a good platform for people to share in a safe way the pain and difficulty of having to leave a church.

I am being blamed for things that have been said and spread after leaving spiritually abusive leadership just days ago. I was trying the "just go" but with a short letter of resignation and thanks(3 lines) after 14 months of faithful service. There was a meeting with leadership where I was asked to be sensual and sexy in my delivery as a minister and worship leader while saying i had been the best female they'd had. Also my supporting other ministries on FB was called into question. I was as on asked to only support our church..when I have been in sales and marketing and network constantly with ministry friends nationwide.
I went on the defense as to my spreading blah..when there were 5 other people in this same meeting the mentioned things were addressed. I have intentionally only spoken to one female elder so they would know i was leaving peacefully....but this was re-ignited tonight by her..on behalf of the leader...SO..Bill..I want to squash this..but i have been one to try to be the peacemaker and not stir up things.....not avoidance because i did do a letter...i feel i am mature and dont mind confrontation..but these kinds of situations are...super hard. I am divorced with children and plan to find another church asap....but How should I arm myself for a meeting that obviously would be keeping me up at 1:46 am on a wednesday wee hours...and while there are other things that were so wrong and enough for me to leave that need to be addressed..I am leery of saying..this is whats wrong. Open communication is good..but despite being a part of leadership having had a strained relationship with the pastor for i was evasive and distanced once I saw too much...how do I do this...I emailed again tonight that i would be willing to meet...because they are just blowing things out of proprtion....i ache...and it hurts ....they sent out an email notifying people of my choice to leave...they continue to poke at me to address the issues..i have at least 8 issues that can be shared....I dont want to be emotional..but i am so disappointed and just wanted to move on. Any advice? #Lordhelpme

Do you have someone close to you that is walking with you through this? Because it sounds like you need a relationship that is safe, but is also close enough to you to know the details of your situation.

Having a person like that would be key...because I fear giving any advice to specific situations without knowing intimately the details...I can offer general advise and principles, but I fear to add anything more beyond that.

My family and I went to a church that was almost an hour away from our home for about 2 years. It just got to the point that with 3 toddlers, it was very draining to go to a church so far away and it was obviously difficult to forge deep relationships due to the distance. So, for those practical reasons, we called our pastor to let him know that we loved him and the church and were so thankful for everything they had done for us, but that we just needed to find a closer community. The response was very abrupt and cold and they do not communicate with us anymore. SO....

we began attending a new church (well now 2 years ago). I volunteer in the Sunday School and participate in outreach whenever I can. My husband and I never felt exactly "home" there, but we also don't want to be "church hoppers" and we realize that there is no perfect church and that we should also be invested there (not just to get what we can out of it). However, more and more, we are realizing that the pastor's messages are very much law-oriented (not very much grace) and that they aren't very balanced (I realize that Pastors usually lean one way or the other). That would probably be O.K., but I come from *very emotionally *abusive parents (who were very legalistic in our 'christian' upbringing) so it's very difficult for me, personally, so sit under very strict teaching (For example, I LOVE to tithe and to give above my tithe, because I just love to give... but our pastor preaches that you will be cursed and removed from the church if you don't tithe... so even though this doesn't directly apply to me, the harshness still hurts my heart. This is just one example of his style). SO, are those legitimate reasons to find another fellowship?

P.S. I forgot to mention that my fear is that because we left the church that was too far away (practical reason) and now, 2 years later, we are desiring to leave for spiritual growth reasons (as described above), that maybe it's a sign that *we are the problem-- to critical or not thankful, or invested enough...?

@ BILL FROM #LORDHELPME-YES I DO-THEY ARE IN ANOTHER STATE BUT THEY ARE ENCOURAGING ME.

I am a introvert and I only go to the pastor when god tells me too. The last time I did he was rude and I feel like I could never go to him again. All the other members can go to him for advice but not me. I can're ask him to pray for me when I am sick.
I try to understand where he is coming from in some ways because when god sends me to him to him it is correcting something wrong he did and god would give me scripture to do so. Now I want to leave the church because I feel separate I feel like I am in a box.......

I really like your article because I am in this same predicament. I am at a church now that I know I heard the Lord tell me that my ministry will flourish whilebeing there. The problem that I am facing ow is that a pastor that I was once under on and off for about 11 years wants me to come back to their church. I have done this on several occasions after leaving several times, but I alwasy get the same results. This particular pastor is gifted, but is very aggressive and demanding as well. My last trip there did not go so good. I was tag teamed by the pastor and the pastor's daughter that was in charge at the time, and they handled me like a kid as if the ministry was my soul responsibility to care for. Now That I am in another ministry and getting exposure, this particular pastor wants me to come back to their church because now they believe it is time for me to pastor it now that there is noone else at that church. The church that i am in now is a good ministry, but there are a few differences in how I was taught which is not a bad thing. I am just torn between the two because my current pastor talked with me about this and believe that it is not time yet for me to leave, while the past pastor thinks that I am disobeying God by not following what she says. Mind you the past pastor just wanted me to up and leave my current church, and pastor for her without giving my current pastor any notice.
Please HELP!!!!

It seems like a lot of the issue is listening to other people. And if you are like me, a people pleaser, then it will be hard to dissapoint other people. It is important to do what you sense the Lord's calling is, and to tune out what other's expectations of you are. This may be difficult to do, but it is your best solution.

Bill,

Thank you for the article.

There are a lot of "Anonymouses" here, so call me "George."

This year, I left my church due to heavy-handed leadership issues. I would recommend people start their 90-day exit plan now.

1. Find a new church FIRST by asking other people who left years ago where they are now.

2. Set a meeting with the pastor at the new church you wish to attend. Ask how you can fit in. Explain the ministries you've been part of and ask if they need your help.

3. If you are a volunteer, find someone to take your place at the old church. If you run a ministry, shut it down during a logical time (Summer, or at the end of the curriculum or end of month or year).

4. Quietly disappear. Don't confront leadership, especially if they are heavy-handed. They will try to meet with you but that's only to bully your, or failing to do that they will pretend to take your comments to heart, but will actually start marginalizing and backstabbing you. It's best to just slip out the back door, and enjoy your new life and ministry.

I wasted 2 years of ministry time at my church trying to make the pastors sensitive to certain issues. I should have gone to another church that had the same vision that God had given me. I could have ministered to dozens more people had I left earlier.

Blessings to you, George

George, thank you for your comments...they are very thoughtful and helpful...if it's ok with you, I am going to turn them into a post - I think others would benefit from your advise...blessings brother, bill

Hello Bill,

My wife and I are at a good church and have a loving Pastor who preaches sound doctrine. We've been there for about 7-8 years and I was ordained a Deacon about 1.5 years ago.My wife usually states that she doesn't get much out of his preaching, but she enjoys the teaching in bible study. Well, although this church is spritiual, it is lacking a bonafide children's ministry. We recently started attending another church 5 months ago near our house but we left our church abruptly. We decided to go back to apologize to our Pastor on how we left. At the meeting, my Pastor surprised me by saying that other people that left the church had euther died or wasn't successful at anything they tried to accomplish. He also spoke about how he was trying to mentor and groom me and was surprised that I wanted to leave the ministry. I expressed to him that it was a family decision to leave, but we could tell that he didn't want to receive it. I felt like I was on a guilt trip and a scare tactic was put in place to control my decision to leave. To be quite honest, The words and stories that he told both startled and amazed me and I felt a level a disappointment. Because it felt like I was being manipulated to stay. I would have been ok if he would have expressed his hurt and left it like that, but I saw a new side of the situation, that troubled me! Can I get your feedback on this matter? Thanks and God Bless!!!

Thanks for sharing...obviously your conversation revealed some things about the character of your pastor that you hadn't ever witnessed before. Unfortunately some pastors can't resist the insecurity of the ministry and don't cling tightly to the cross, especially when times are tough (i.e. when people are leaving) As a result they may rely on fear or manipulation...it appears to me there is not more you can do, but be willing to pray for him and church...that the gospel would seize his life and the ministry of the church.

Bill,
Yes, you can use my comments for a blog post. Adapt or duplicate as you please.
--George

I'm decided to leave the church I've been a part of for 5 years, but the difficulty in my situation is that I felt like I don't want to burn the bridge. I love people there and a lot of them are my friends, but there are certain things that I don't agree in regards to the leadership, because their ways and principles is a little bit extreme and legalistic.
I'm not leaving because bitterness although there are a lot of things that had happened.They removed me from one of their training for leaders of the church, they told me that my spiritual growth is slow. Are they in a position to judge my spiritual growth? I have done my best to serve God and to really get involved in the ministry.
Then 3 years ago they put me on Disciplinary action because I courted one of my church mate that also part of the ministry, they have a rules that legal age for dating and relationship is 22. Although I ask forgiveness and undergo their discipline and accepted their rules and followed it for 2 years but still today even though I'm restored back, they still don't trust me and still have doubts that the reason I'm staying in their church because of the girl I courted 3 years ago.
I'm a part of the music ministry but I only attend practice and never been promoted as the guitarist even though some ministry leaders referred me to the head leaders. They didn't promote me even at the time they don't have a guitarist.
Those were some of my experiences but I'm planning not to spoke to them about the things that I disagree in regards to their system because its not the main reason and I don't want to offend them, the main reason for me is that I knew God is guiding me to a new direction, I already knew the church I will be going to and will support because their focus is the Kingdom message of Jesus unlike the church I'm going to leave they been involved in a lot of stuff but not in the Kingdom message of God.
I need help I don't know what to do or how I'm going to say goodbye to my leaders and leave. Is it possible for me to not damage the relationship I have with them even though a lot of my former church mates that leaved doesn't have a good relationship with the church and its members, because the congregation and denomination I'm in is like have really strong religious zeal and are legalistic that a lot of them opposed those who go out from them. Our head pastor even told us that no church member who gone out here grow in their faith or spiritually.
Please help need some advice and pray for me, I'm still troubled
on how I'm going to do this but I already made up my mind after praying for it and been thinking about it for several months now...thanks God bless..

Dear Anonymous from May 21, 2013--

You are in an abusive church. This is how to get out.
http://thewartburgwatch.com/2013/05/23/abusive-church-discipline-how-to-recognize-it-and-escape/#comment-99763

You know the world-acclaimed author on loyalty in churches- Dag Heward-Mills recently authored a sequel to his best seller "Loyalty and Disloyalty" titled "Those Who Leave You". In this phenomenal book on loyalty in churches, Dag Heward-Mills teaches on why people leave churches, transitional stages, and how to handle such people, both physically and spiritually (in prayer). Dag Heward-Mills expounds all these from the Word of God. Get it and gain understanding! :)

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My name is mrs. Santana Valdez from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in May 28TH MAY 2013 this year on a business summit. i ment a man called dr. Atakpo.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address atakpotemble@yahoo.com

Great Atakpo i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you. Email Him Through his email address... atakpotemble@yahoo.com

please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay..

What a powerful man such as Dr Atakpo.. he is so much powerful..\\ email him for any difficulties.. atakpotemble@yahoo.com


My Name is Isabella from Europ.I never believed in Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster called wiseindividualspell@gmail.com.The man i wanted to marry left me 5 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down. he was with me for 7 years and i really love him so much.. he left me for another woman with no reasons..when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him…so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spells over my husband and that is the reason why he left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try…In 3 days,he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this to the forum if anyone needs the help of this man.Can contact him through this email address wiseindividualspell@gmail.com or call his mobile number +2348078927387.

I really increased my knowledge after read your post which will be beneficial for me.

Please pray for me and my family. We are all very unhappy at our church. We have had many many hurtful things done to all of us. We are not getting spiritial fed. Our pastor has no communioncation skills at all. His favorite way to reach out is threw emails. We are losing members all the time. My family has been serving for decades and we have seen tons of chances but there is no regard for people. There is a few people with powder and their is not a lot of Christian love for each other. How does one leave after 47 years? Anoymons.

I do want some advice from Pastors.

I am a young Staff Pastor in my 20s in the mid west. I have been in a staff position for 8 years and also in leadership for an additional 2-3 years. I was called to ministry at the age of 14. I am currently serving in the church where I grew up, I have never left. I initially had a problem with people who I have grown up in front of, accepting me into leadership. That problem has since been taken care of. from the years of 2001-2007, we had many church splits due to several Pastoral Administrations and their short-comings. Since we have been able to stabilize the church through an interim pastor and then another Pastor of 2 years. That particular pastor was called elsewhere by God. There was a period of 3 months between the leaving of that Pastor and the hiring of a new pastor. For the last 2 years or so with this newer pastor, I initially felt dedicated to his vision and ministry. He is also a young pastor in his 30s. About a year into his ministry at our church, I began to see a different side to him. I saw manipulation of members and also manipulation of staff, including myself. The more I became aware of this, the more I saw. I stopped spiritually being fed because of thoughts in the back of my mind. In the last 6 months, I have felt that he no longer wants me at the church but will not or cannot fire me because of my roots and the uproar that it would cause among members. I already have plans to leave, but cannot yet because of my education. I need to finish it and will be done in March of 2014. I know I have to hang on till then, but daily frustrations arise of my feeling out of place, reduced to the position of a secretary, yet with the expectations of a "pastor". I cannot help but think that he is threatened by me because we are both in the same area (education wise) and I may be ordained before him. But that may be my ego talking. I need advice on how to last through these next 9 or so months. I have received complaints from others about his behavior outside of his "pulpit" character, so I know it is not just me. I cannot talk to him one on one because of his manipulation, but I cannot go to anyone else because I do not trust anyone anymore because of it (manipulation). I cannot go to the board that presides over the churches in our area, because it is my word against his and I don't want to put our church through anymore hurt. I am just left between a rock and a hard place. Any help?

Before I went to Las Vegas last winter, I came across your website and Dr. Imongire Money spell. I thought, what the heck! Maybe I’d get lucky. I won more money this time around than I’d ever won before. It was like a miracle. I’ll never go back to Vegas without getting one of Dr. Imongire money spells. Sincerely, Try and you can also get lucky my friends out there, contact him via: Ominighospelltempletemple@gmail.com

Anonymous individual your support in the building process of this local church is greatly admired ....please do be reminded that the Lord positions us in any given church for His purposes whether it be financial suppor prayer and attendance ...and He blesses us to do such ...when we relocate out of Gods time this, will really affect the local church... if God is able to feed an entire nation in the wilderness he can definitely meet all ur family needs He knows best.... Remember ..its not all about how my church can serve me but how the lord wants me to serve in his vine yard...he can do more for u n family there than else where..just something to consider...hope this helps

Finding another church will not solve the issue as the church is not the problem.....sounds as if ur husband is having an insecurity issue....I would recommend not leaving ur church as ur husband is well familiar with leadership n is more likely to be receptive there...please dont isolate urself...ur family needs help inparticularly ur husband....it would be wise to seek counsel from church leadership...hope this helps..God bless

No need to be fearful but. Being careful is ok......I would rather be in a spirit filled church where im growing in Christ even if its almost an hour away than to be in a conveniently located place where Im not...remember..john the baptist ministry was in a very inconvenient location( the widerness)God has such a sense of humour n He loves u greatly child of God...be blessed.

Great article. Thank you for writing this. It is very helpful.

Well written... Reed Jolley and exactly the encouragement to do well what is most often done very poorly. I believe it is easier to "just walk away", but it is God-honoring to do so with the proper motives and communication.

I'm having thoughts of moving to another church & the church I'm currently at I've been there for 10 years. Let me explain my reasons. I've asked myself over & over why do I belong to a hispanic church when I understand the english language much better. I understand both languages but I feel my spiritual growth is so slow because of it. I've been helping out as needed in the church when I've been asked but there are times I feel like I'm not sufficiently prepared to do a certain job; such as translating. That is something I was pratically forced to do. I felt so bad for the person I was translating for because there were many words I was unable to translate. I've help with the Jr. High ministry but in reality with no training (by the grace of God) I teach class for the ages of 12-14 again no training. I still don't feel that I'm fully equipt. Here is probably the top reason, my Pastor is the only one we can go to when you want to talk about something important whether it's about church or personal. The problem with that is that he's very busy. The other reason is that I don't think my 13 year old son nor I are growing much spiritually speaking. Please give me your insight. Thank you!

This spell changed everything for me. I am sure you get that alot. I always believed it would work because the other spells that you did for me were so brilliant I had no doubts. But when it actually happened and the way it did – I just never believed I could have such happiness. I owe you an incredible debt. Thank you for being my friend, confidante and most honest witch. I love you, love you, love you, Dr. Lee of the Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

Thanks to this great man of spirit called Dr Samura which I don't know how to thank him for the good work he has Don for me and family which I want to share my testimony with to you all so I was married to Hassan Moel and my name is Julie deshields for six years now he left me with two kids with know reason which I don't know what to do.so one day i was in my friends place when I exposed my pain to her about my depression which I have be looking for who to help me out of it then my friend called me closer to her self telling me on how she got this great man of spirit who helped her found her way to get her husband back then I ask of his contact she quickly go and get her computer and gave me his Email ID and his number so,that is how I contacted him for a help. And now am so happy with my family and with a happy home if you are in such pain kindly Via Email SAMURATELLERSPELL100@YAHOO.COM or call +2347030410643 have faith in him and he will help you
Julie Deshields.



My name is Mrs Rita and I base in USA...“My life is back!!! After 14 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me and our two twins . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Ejemen which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across alot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a Lady called Sonia,she testified about how Dr Ejemen brought back her Ex lover in less than 7 days and reverse the effect of their little boys cancer, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr. Ejemen's e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give Dr Ejemen
a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. Dr Ejemen is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try Dr Ejemen anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact:{ejemenspelltemple@live.com}. Thanks you Dr Ejemen.


My name is Mrs Tiffany form USA i want to let the whole word known how happy i am after 18 years of marriage without a baby, until i met a friend at a super market who told me about a black magic man, who helped her when she had similar problem, initially i docpted the black man because i taught it was all a joke until i was blessed with a baby girl with the help of the black man after doing what he asked and instructed me to do, my baby is Eight months old now and all my sorrows has been turned into joy with 2 years am using this medium to reach out to all my fellow women with same case to known that some one is out there that can put a smile on their faces only if u believe and trust i will be happy if i will be source of many women joy once more you can reach he on this email professionallovespell@hotmail.com

He also specialize on all kind of spell aside rituals e g

1 HOW TO MAKE YOU GET PREGNANCY
2 HOW TO GET YOUR EX HUSBAND AND WIFE BACK
3 HOW TO WIN YOUR LOTTERY
4 PROMOTION SPELL
5PROTECTONI SPELL
6BUSINESS SPELL
7GOOD JOB SPELL

YOU CAN CONTACT HIM ON THIS :professionallovespell@hotmail.com

After being in relationship with my husband for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is (LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM } tel.+2347053977842) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

Hello,
My name is Jessica Flora,Am from UK,i never believe there will ever be a solution to my relationship problem with my lover. my lover called Chris flora threw me out of his house and brought in another lady who he now feels the only best for him. until one day i receive a phone call from a friend in the city that my man is going out on a date with another woman in town, i told her i am also surprise too, because since Chris flora has left me he hardly think nor call me. so after some few days my friend called Martha called me and told me that she has found a man that is very powerful, and he is a great herbalist from Africa, truly we all knows that Africans are blessed with so much herbal voodoo powers which they use to help much people, so he told me that the man name is Dr. Iyaryi , that she will forward his email address for me so that i can contact him for help, so truly she sent me Dr. Iyaryi email address and i contacted him that faithful day. he mailed me after a great while that my man will be back to me if only i believe on his work,so after 25hrs i receive a phone call from smith Moore, and he started begging that i should please forgive him against all he had done to me.. he begged me of breaking my heart and letting the other lady a new heart. he promise me never to let go. now i and Smith Moore are now planning to get married as soon as possible. we are brought back with the great powerful love spell and blinded with Dr. Iyaryi spell, we are happy and glad. so i thank you sir for the great help you offer to me, because i think today this might be the only ways and means i can ever thank you of your work.. i am glad. you can contact him for a love spell today at: odulduspelltemple@yahoo.com thank you sir. Email him on: odulduspelltemple@yahoo.com

PLEASE JOIN ME AND THANK PROPHET LORD, FOR HIS HELP ON BRINGING BACK MY MAN TO ME.
Hello,
My name is Ruth Moore,Am from UK,i never believe there will ever be a solution to my relationship problem with my lover. my lover called smith Moore threw me out of his house and brought in another lady who he now feels the only best for him. until one day i receive a phone call from a friend in the city that my man is going out on a date with another woman in town, i told her i am also surprise too, because since smith Moore has left me he hardly think nor call me. so after some few days my friend called Martha called me and told me that she has found a man that is very powerful, and he is a great herbalist from Africa, truly we all knows that Africans are blessed with so much herbal voodoo powers which they use to help much people, so he told me that the man name is prophet lord , that she will forward his email address for me so that i can contact him for help, so truly she sent me prophet lord email address and i contacted him that faithful day. he mailed me after a great while that my man will be back to me if only i believe on his work,so after 25hrs i receive a phone call from smith Moore, and he started begging that i should please forgive him against all he had done to me.. he begged me of breaking my heart and letting the other lady a new heart. he promise me never to let go. now i and Smith Moore are now planning to get married as soon as possible. we are brought back with the great powerful love spell and blinded with prophet lords pell, we are happy and glad. so i thank you sir for the great help you offer to me, because i think today this might be the only ways and means i can ever thank you of your work.. i am glad. you can contact him for a love spell today at: solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com thank you sir. Email him on: solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com

Hello every body
My Name is john smith from Port Land .I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum course i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her face book and she changed her face book status from engage to Single...when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he is going to help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to Germany the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 3:15pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my my girl friend called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume work on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit i have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with a baby boy and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to obeduneedospelltemple@gmail.com I can;t give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he also have a web site if you want to visit him there' he will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck. Dr sada mudo of obedunnedospelltemple@gmail.com is a great man..

hello every body on this forum........
MY Name is Heather Brown,am from United States i want to share my life experience to every body on this site.i was in a serious relationship with john, i love him so much we have dated for almost 5 years now.until he meant another girl called Sandra he told me that he is know longer interested in dating me any more. i was so confuse i don't know what to do.so i told my friend about what my love just told me and she told me that she can solve my problem i was doubting her how can that be possible.so she directed me to a spell caster called Dr saga mudo.so i contacted him victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com and i explain every thing to him and he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK.So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back to me begging me on his knees on the ground asking me to forgive him.Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact him email;victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com is a great man in case you are facing any kind of problem please contact him he will solve your problem for you once again thanks victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com



Am giving this testimony because someone out there may have similar problem My Husband doesn’t think polygamy is wrong. He has been seeing another girl for about four months now. I told him that he needs to stop, but he says he is in love with her. They’ve talked about being together “forever” and eventually her moving in with us. My husband still loves me. He regrets getting into this in the first place, but is not willing to just break up with her. He says if they so break up then thy will be it and he will not pursue another relationship. I contacted DR agumagu a spell caster who cast a 24 hour spell for me surprisingly my husband came home on his knees begging me to forgive him that he has broke up with his mistress all thanks to DR agumagu I pray that God will continue to use you to help people. Friends don’t die in silent because someone like DR agumagu has a solution to your problem is living happily with my family. Contact him via agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com





Dr Osaze, I am so happy to tell you that Michael and I just got back from a wonderful second honey moon in Greece after renewing our vows. After being married for 10 years and 2 kids later, the luster had been long gone from our marriage until I found you. Our first wedding was in front of a judge, quick and to the point because neither of us could afford more. Our vow renewal was everything that we wanted and the honeymoon was absolutely amazing! It feels like we have fallen in love for the first time all over again. I owe you a big hug!
contact Dr osaze on oosaspiritualtemple001@gmail.com

Thanks! ~ stephine, United States, Los Angeles, CA


I was married for three years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about Dr.Sango from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to Dr Sango for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address is:sangospelltemple@gmail.com

Hello to the world at edge,

I want you to hear a good testimony of the great love Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com) who help me on my time of problems,
My name is Joyce and i am from France and i am married with 2kids and i had a lovely family before before all the problem i want to share with you happened,my husband use to be very caring and lovely to me and my kids and we were very happy with each other,until a day and we where having a dinner in one of the restaurant in our state and their was a lady who was sitting close to us and i never knew she was interested to have my husband and due to i was with my husband she could not do anything there then after that day,my husband started to maltreat us at home not knowing that he his seeing that lady until a friend came to told me and i confirm it my self it really hurt due to the love we shared before,it really affected me until a friend who came from Africa told me about the powers of Africa spell Doctors specially Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com,even if i did not believe in spell i had nothing but to try and to my greatest surprise my husband came back home and beg me and now we are living more happy than before please you all should come together and thanks these great Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com,He can also help you if you believe in him and these is contact: http://odigelovespellsolution.webs.com/,thanks thanks once again

hello every body on this forum........
MY Name is Heather Brown,am from United States i want to share my life experience to every body on this site.i was in a serious relationship with john, i love him so much we have dated for almost 5 years now.until he meant another girl called Sandra he told me that he is know longer interested in dating me any more. i was so confuse i don't know what to do.so i told my friend about what my love just told me and she told me that she can solve my problem i was doubting her how can that be possible.so she directed me to a spell caster called Dr saga mudo.so i contacted him victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com and i explain every thing to him and he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK.So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back to me begging me on his knees on the ground asking me to forgive him.Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact him email;victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com is a great man in case you are facing any kind of problem please contact him he will solve your problem for you once again thanks victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com

Hello every body
My Name is john smith from Port Land .I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum course i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her face book and she changed her face book status from engage to Single...when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he is going to help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to Germany the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 3:15pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my my girl friend called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume work on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit i have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with a baby boy and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to obeduneedospelltemple@gmail.com I can;t give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he also have a web site if you want to visit him there' he will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck. Dr sada mudo of obeduneedospelltemple@gmail.com is a great man..

PLEASE JOIN ME AND THANK PROPHET LORD, FOR HIS HELP ON BRINGING BACK MY MAN TO ME.
Hello,
My name is Ruth Moore,Am from UK,i never believe there will ever be a solution to my relationship problem with my lover. my lover called smith Moore threw me out of his house and brought in another lady who he now feels the only best for him. until one day i receive a phone call from a friend in the city that my man is going out on a date with another woman in town, i told her i am also surprise too, because since smith Moore has left me he hardly think nor call me. so after some few days my friend called Martha called me and told me that she has found a man that is very powerful, and he is a great herbalist from Africa, truly we all knows that Africans are blessed with so much herbal voodoo powers which they use to help much people, so he told me that the man name is prophet lord , that she will forward his email address for me so that i can contact him for help, so truly she sent me prophet lord email address and i contacted him that faithful day. he mailed me after a great while that my man will be back to me if only i believe on his work,so after 25hrs i receive a phone call from smith Moore, and he started begging that i should please forgive him against all he had done to me.. he begged me of breaking my heart and letting the other lady a new heart. he promise me never to let go. now i and Smith Moore are now planning to get married as soon as possible. we are brought back with the great powerful love spell and blinded with prophet lords pell, we are happy and glad. so i thank you sir for the great help you offer to me, because i think today this might be the only ways and means i can ever thank you of your work.. i am glad. you can contact him for a love spell today at: solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com thank you sir. Email him on: solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com

Hello,
My name is Jessica Flora,Am from UK,i never believe there will ever be a solution to my relationship problem with my lover. my lover called Chris flora threw me out of his house and brought in another lady who he now feels the only best for him. until one day i receive a phone call from a friend in the city that my man is going out on a date with another woman in town, i told her i am also surprise too, because since Chris flora has left me he hardly think nor call me. so after some few days my friend called Martha called me and told me that she has found a man that is very powerful, and he is a great herbalist from Africa, truly we all knows that Africans are blessed with so much herbal voodoo powers which they use to help much people, so he told me that the man name is Dr. Iyaryi , that she will forward his email address for me so that i can contact him for help, so truly she sent me Dr. Iyaryi email address and i contacted him that faithful day. he mailed me after a great while that my man will be back to me if only i believe on his work,so after 25hrs i receive a phone call from smith Moore, and he started begging that i should please forgive him against all he had done to me.. he begged me of breaking my heart and letting the other lady a new heart. he promise me never to let go. now i and Smith Moore are now planning to get married as soon as possible. we are brought back with the great powerful love spell and blinded with Dr. Iyaryi spell, we are happy and glad. so i thank you sir for the great help you offer to me, because i think today this might be the only ways and means i can ever thank you of your work.. i am glad. you can contact him for a love spell today at: odulduspelltemple@yahoo.com thank you sir. Email him on: odulduspelltemple@yahoo.com

I left my church at 18. I wish I could say it was difficult, but that would be a lie. I simply stopped attending. Sometimes I wonder if they even know I'm gone. I'm sure the basketball coach noticed since we were like three games into the season. Oh well!

Hello PRIEST ODUMA, You were my last hope and after all the spell casters I tried before, you were my last chance that I had getting my wife back, and you kept your promise! My wife wrote me such a touching letter last week. She wants to live with me and the kids again. I really feel I'm living a new life Thank you soooooo much PRIEST ODUMA
Alex , UK ..
Contact priest oduma via emial @spellofsolution1@yahoo.com OR call him on +2348153363047

I am sharing my testimony to everyone that has tried everything possible and had lost hope on how they can get their ex back,i want you all to know that their is a relationship therapist,Therapist Oniha of the WIN EX BACK SPELL that work for me and after 3days of his spell,my girlfriend came begin for my forgiveness,the spell casting preparation brought my ex girlfriend back to me without any delay, i am really happy now that we are together again and we are living happily with so much love and respect for each other, so i will advise everyone to ask for this same man's help so that you can be happy again and make your dreams and wishes come true just contact Therapist Oniha via his email address winexbackspell@gmail.com and also please make him understand that i am always grateful with his help.

I WANT TO THANK GREAT DR IGBERASE 2ND FOR HELPING ME WITH MY LOST HUSBAND DEVIS HOLLYWOOD...
Dr Igberase is like a father to the fatherless.. i never believed these will really make a change in my marriage, and i never have it in my thought that i could ever been with my husband Mr Devis after divorcing and ending our 33years marriage.... My life was upset i never knew where to start from when my husband broke up with me.....My name is Tanisha Devis from Poland but got married and live in Chicago USA, igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com is the right email address to contact for an urgent help in getting your lover back.... My husband and I have been together for 33years before he divorced me and i was so upset because i thought i have lost my marriage forever... i did all i could to please for my husband to bring me back home but all to be in vain.. i had to travelled away from my state because i was not having anywhere to stay because my home was not conducive for me to stay because my husband want me out of th house, i travel to a friend of mine in California, one night, when i was searching on a good spell caster results that help in bringing back lost lover's and husband's, i found an interesting story that was shared by Santana Valdez From Texas Huston, about a good spell caster called Dr Igberase,and how he helped her in getting her husban back home, and i decided to put a try in contacting him... he replied me back.. i thought at first these was just normal and he told me that i was going to get back my husband after a period of 28hours i still doubted him.... But today as i am sharing these good news is for me to express my experience to all the whole universe that these is a good spell caster that helps in bringing back lost lovers and he is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) I am happily with my husband and my 3 kids, TARRY, WENDY, JEFF... great Atakpo i thank you for helping me to get my family back.... his email address is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com), Thanks, From Tanisha Devis, Igberase is my Granfather because he was always there for me when i needed him mostly and he is the reason why i am happy today.





Hello,everyone i am from Canada i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called dr ogala who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for two years before our marriage,His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married with two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say thank you dr ogala for been there for me,contact him today and your life will never ever remain the same his email is Ogalalovespell@yahoo.com, may the lord continue to use you to save people as you did to me, He is the best spell caster that can help you.

I was married for five years without any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home lately and not spending time with me any more. and because of this my husband divorce me. So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my friend told me about dr.ogala from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a reunite spell to bring back my husband and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to dr.ogala for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address is:(ogalalovespell@yahoo.com) tel.+2348156885231

I am Miss Precious from USA, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank OGBU BABA for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found ogbubabaspellcaster@yahoo.com a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 3 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. OGBU BABA released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my fiance is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to OGBU BABA for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. ogbubabaspellcaster@yahoo.com


I am here to testify to the good work of the Dr Osaze. 4 years ago, my husband left home, he never returned, no phone calls, no letters, no emails, no sign of him anywhere. my daughter got sick with multiple sclerosis, things were so tough for me. I had lost hope, 2 years ago, i met a psychic, he said he would help me, i paid over $6800 and still nothing happened, I lost hope. completely, my daughters situation got worse each day.last month, I saw a posting concerning the good.works of the whole professionals, I gave them a try ? i requested all three spells (Bring Lover. back, Healing spell and Career spells). In a matter of weeks, my husband called me and told me he was. sorry and that he wants to come back to me and that he would explain everything when he comes back,three days later, I got a new job with a loan and finance company, right now, my daughter??s condition is.getting better each day and I trust she would be well in a matter of days.I want to thank, spirituallove@hotmail.com for their efforts and for bringing my life back to normal and so close to. perfection.
My name is Sharon, I live in Chicago.

I heard so many things about DR OKAKAGBE from ACOGBESPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM and every story has been so great. so here is my story me and the father of my son has been off and on for 3 years its been a very stressful relationship. he cheated on me and I was very hurt, it was miserable for me so in returned I cheated because I wanted him to feel the pain but he never cares so we went apart, so he went back to his ex.i wanted him to leave her and let us come back together, I love him so much and I just want him to feel the same way feel for him, luckly for me DR OKAKAGBE was the one who brought my lover back to me, he is a good spell caster. his contact address is ACOGBESPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM.you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband

i want to thank God for using dr okakagbe as my source of saviour after 2year of joblessness and my lover left me alone for 2 years,Have just been heart broken until i go in contact with dr okakagbe after i saw a ladies testimony on how she was helped by this same dr donkbaba,So i decided to get in contact with him and when i told him all my problems he laughed and said this is not a problem that everything will be ok in 3days time.Exactly the 3rd day my ex lover called me i was shocked and what surprise me the most was that a company i applied for over 4month called me and said i should resume work as soon as possible.Am so grateful to dr donkbaba if you wish in contacting ACOGBESPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM

THE MIGHTY SPELL CASTER THAT HELPED ME SOLVED MY CRITICAL PROBLEM.
I dont know how to really thank Dr Raypower for what he did for me. My Name is Precious from USA, i was dating this man who i loved very much for over six years now without any problem in our relationship. so at a point he changed so suddenly after returning from the office and started behaving so strangely. it even got to the extent that he told me it was over and i should never call him again. This was a person that loved me with everything that he had. When i told my friend jenny what happened, she introduced me to a great spell caster called DR RAYPOWER. At first sight this man told me all my problems that it was his secretary that used a charm on him. Dr Raypower told me not to worry that he will help me solve the problem. The following day, i was in the house in a sober mood when i first received a message from my boyfriend that he was very sorry and before i dropped the phone, he called me again to say he is on his way home and that he was truly sorry for everything. To my greatest surprise, one week later he engaged me and we got married. All Thanks to Dr raypower. You can email him at raypowersolutionhome@gmail.com for any problem that you have. once again his email address is raypowersolutionhome@gmail.com

My life is back!!! After 20years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted Dr IDISI and after I explained my problem to him,he sent me a Save My Marriage Spell. In just 3days, my husband came back to us. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. Thanks to Dr IDISI the spell caster.”if you need help contact the spell caster on Emai;lidisispellcaster@gmail.com

All my thanks to the great Dr Zack Balo who helped me bring the love of my life back within 3days. i have never see any spell that work so fast like the one which he cast for me. i am saying this to those who are willing to do anything to get their ex back to contact this great man Dr Zack Balo on his email address wiseindividualspell@gmail.com or call him on +2348078927387

My name is Mrs. mercy jeffry,From USA ,and I’m happily married with a lovely husband and three children.I had a very big problem with my husband few months ago,to the extent that he even packed his things away from our house. He left I and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring him back.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster, that he is the only one that can handle my situations and problem,that he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting and helping of the needy, Pls every one i would like you all to contact him with his email address,which is as follows.”drsmartspellhome@gmail.com". I never believed in spell casting,but My friend convinced me and i had no choice than to follow my friend advice,because i never dreamed of loosing my lovely Husband. And i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him all my problems and worries and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my husband back a day after. I didn't believed Him, until when i got home,the next day,my husband called me to inform me that he is coming back home…..So Amazing!! That’s how i got my back through spell casting and our relationship was stronger than ever. One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to the people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by Dr. smart. So! my advice to you out there is to visit this same E-mail address,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back or and problem at all, pls Contact him and have a happy life. you can contact him via email (drsmartspellhome@gmail.com ) all you can call him +2348104933655.

Hello everyone out there,I am Quinn,from united state of America. Here is my testimony on how my ex husband came back to me within 3days by the help of a great spell caster Dr.obas After 7years in marriage with my husband, he divorced me and brought in another lady,i did all i could to get him back but all proved abortive,until an old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet who helped her in a similar issue, but decided to give it a try, when i contacted him he helped me cast a re-union spell and within 3days my husband came back to me apologizing and today we are happy together.you can email him on this Email:obasspiritualtemple@gmail.com

My name is Ruth,am from USA, My Ex-boyfriend dumped me 4 years ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help people to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married very soon.Dr.obas, You are truly talented and gifted. Email:obasspiritualtemple@gmail.comis the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man.

I am full of happiness as I smile and write this testimony .
I am Bianca Vega, I and my husband was having issues 4 years back and it leads to serious quarrel and fight even before our child we'll fight all night till we separated , but I was so in love with him so I seek for how to get him back in my life and a friend told me about this spell caster Prophet Mike who helped her get her ex back so I contacted and narrated all my problems to him in email and he responded so fast to me and he told me that my husband will return to me and beg me for love forever together in 3 days after he has cast the spell , really exactly 3 days my husband began to call me and begged me for forgiveness . Now we are together and he loves and shows care,concern and appreciates me like never before . Thanks to Prophet Mike . Contact him for your solution ( purityspell@gmail.com )

I never knew people still have powers and make things happened this way.
my name is Michelle Sonia, am from American. my boyfriend Carlos Wilson left me for
another girl for three months’ ever since then my life have been filled
with pains, sorrow and heart break because he was my first love who This
virgin me when i was 21 years old about two years ago. A friend of mine,
Melinda told me he saw some testimonies of this great Dr AYEWA that he
can bring back lover within some few days. i laugh it out and said i am
not interested but because of the love my friend had for me, she consulted
the great priest on my behalf and to my greatest surprise after four days
my boyfriend called me for the very first time after three months that he
is missing me and that he is so sorry for every thing he made me went
through. i still can’t believe it,is highly unbelivable because it just too real to be real.
Thank you so much Dr AYEWA for bringing back my lover and also to my lovely friend
who interceded on my behalf, for any one who might need the help of this
great priest here is the email adderss ashiranlovetemple@outlook.com

Hello my name is JULIAN i know renowned
spell caster who helped me when i had
problem with my boss if you need a right
place to solve your problems contact DR
AJAGBOSPELLTEMPLE is the right choice.
he is a great man that have been casting spells
with years of experience. he cast spells for
different purposes like
(1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) Herbal care
(10) if you want to cure your hiv aids
(11) if you are sick of cancer he can help you cure it
nothing is impossible in the sight of DR AJAGBO.CALL DR AJAGBO +2348156759423
Contact him today on:his email AJAGBOSPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM.

THANKS TO THE MIGHTY SPELL CASTER DR KEK ODIN WHO HELPED ME BROUGHT BACK MY HUSBAND TO BACK HOME TO MY KIDS.
I AM TRINA WILLIAMS. I WAS MARRIED TO MR HUSBAND WILLIAMS SCOTCH FOR SEVEN YEARS AND WE LIVED HAPPILY TOGETHER UNTIL A CERTAIN DAY HE JUST WOKE UP FROM SLEEP TO TELL ME THAT HE DOES NOT LOVE ME ANY MORE. AT FIRST I TAUGHT IT WAS A JOKE BUT WITH TIME I BECAME TO SEE THAT HE WAS SERIOUS.WE ALREADY HAVE TWO KIDS TOGETHER AND I WAS ALREADY PREGNANT FOR MY THIRD BABY. SO A DAY CAME WHEN HE JUST ARRANGED HIS BAGS AND SAID HE WAS LEAVING THE HOUSE FOR GOOD AND NOT LONGER INTERESTED IN THE RELATIONSHIP. I FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER GIRL AND THEY BOTH TRAVELED OUT OF THE STATE. AS I WAS READING THROUGH THE INTERNET ABOUT DIVORCE, I READ ABOUT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER DR KEKE SO I CONTACTED HIM FOR HELP. HE TOLD ME NOT TO WORRY THAT IN JUST 24 HOURS, THAT MY HUSBAND WAS GOING TO COM BACK. I NEVER BELIEVED HIM UNTIL THE FOLLOWING DAY WHEN MY HUSBAND CAME TO THE HOUSE ASKING FOR MY FORGIVENESS. NOW WE ARE HAPPY TOGETHER WITH OUR KIDS. YOU CAN CONTACT DR KEKE TODAY AT greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com or call him on +2348104181322 once again contact him at greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com. HE IS THE BEST SPELL CASTER AND SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS AND PREDICAMENTS.

I never thought it would happen, but thanks to Dr. Lee and his amazing money spell, I just won the lottery! I have played every day for a year and never won more than a few dollars, but with Dr. Lee money spell, I finally won an extremely big prize! Thank you Dr for being my good luck charm! If you be happy like me I will advise you to just contact Dr. Lee via: Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com and I promise you won't regret it in any way.

my ex breakup 4 months ago and i was so depressed and devastated in getting him back.A friend of mine introduce me to a spell caster and i tell him my problem and i was guaranteed with 3 days to get my result and guest what the great miracle fell on me the third day and truly my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness even when i cost everything.God has truly blessed you with a very special gift. I just wanted to say thank you so much for the time that you took with me and helping me to get my ex back, i am so happy. You are the perfect spell caster i have ever met,you can contact him with this email Ogalalovespell@gmail.com he can help you all

My Name is Stacey Fernandez, From Canada I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Asije has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell within 24 hours. I was married to my husband Alans Evans, we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email(drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com)then you won’t believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared cast a very strong spell for me and bring my lost husband back within 24hrs, and after a month I miss my monthly period and went for a test and the result showed that i was pregnant. i am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Asije for what you have done for me.Contact him on his private email drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com if you are out there passing through any of this problems or predicaments in your life. his private website is http://drasijesolutionhome.webs.com

1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.
(10)if you want to stop your divorce.
(11)if you want to divorce your husband.
(12)if you want your wishes to be granted.
(13) Pregnancy spell tp conceive baby
(14)Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
(15)Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart.
once again the email address is drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com contact him immediately or contact through his website at http://drasijesolutionhome.webs.com

My Name is Stacey Fernandez, From Canada I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Asije has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell within 24 hours. I was married to my husband Alans Evans, we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email(drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com)then you won’t believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared cast a very strong spell for me and bring my lost husband back within 24hrs, and after a month I miss my monthly period and went for a test and the result showed that i was pregnant. i am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Asije for what you have done for me.Contact him on his private email drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com if you are out there passing through any of this problems or predicaments in your life. his private website is http://drasijesolutionhome.webs.com

1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.
(10)if you want to stop your divorce.
(11)if you want to divorce your husband.
(12)if you want your wishes to be granted.
once again the email address is drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com contact him immediately or contact through his website at http://drasijesolutionhome.webs.com

After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called EZE MALAKA and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: extremewhitelovespell@yahoo.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS WEBSITE ADDRESS is http://extremewhitelovespell.webs.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.

After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called EZE MALAKA and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: extremewhitelovespell@yahoo. com

Hello everyone, Hello , my name is Mrs Waiter of Housto texas.I came to this site to share the good works of Dr.Ogbo ( prophetbaz ) . I never believed in love, money spells or magic until I meant this powerful spell caster when I went to Africa in December last year on a business trip. He is very powerful and can help you cast spells to bring back the love of one ` s been lost , bad behavior , lover looking for someone to love you , wealth Money , Winning lottery number, bringing back lost his lover, bring money lost and magic money spell for a good job , I ` m happy and alive testimony now , because the man who had wanted to marry left me 2 weeks before our wedding and my life was turned upside down because our relationship has been for years .. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and no job that pays well . So when I refer to this sorcerer, I told him what happened and he explained the situation of things to it .. At first I was hesitant , skeptical and doubtful , but I just gave it a try . And in five days time when I returned to Texas, my boyfriend (now my husband, Dr. Wallocks ) called me and apologized that everything had been settled with his mother and his family and he has a new job interview so we should get married and gave birth to twins nad I was cured of HIV .. I didn ` t think the sorcerer Because just asked me my name and my boyfriends name and all I wanted to do it did for me ... We are happily married and are now expecting our little boy , and my husband also got the new job and life became much better and we became very rich. In case any caster needs some help , email him at this email address : (drogbohighspiritualspellcaster@gmail.com ) ...... I hope that helps . Hurry now and contact him via email as :(drogbohighspiritualspellcaster@gmail.com ) .. Thank you very much and I am so happy right now .. Mrs Waiter.

I'm marretia from canada am here to testify in the name of this great man who has brought back happiness into my family after my lover luke left me for 5years for another woman,i really loved luke because he was my first love i tried everything within my power to get luke back to my life but people i met just kept on scamming me and lying to me,Then normally on Saturdays i do go out to make my hair and get some stuff,Then i had people discussing at the saloon if they do listen to there radio well,That there is a program (how i got back my ex)And started talking much about priest grace how this man has helped lots of people in bringing back there lover,So immediately i went close to those ladies i met at the saloon and i explained things to them they said i should try and contact priest grace that he has been the talk of the town and people are really contacting him for help immediately we searched on the internet and read great things about priest grace i now got all priest grace contact instantly at the saloon i gave priest grace a call and i shared my problem with him he just told me not to worry that i should just be happy,He just told me to send him some few details which i did,And then he got back to me that everything would be okay within 24hours i was so happy then priest grace did his work and he did not fail me,My lover luke came to me in tears and apologized to me for leaving me in deep pain for good 5years,So he decided to prove that he will never leave me for any reason he made me had access to his account and made me his next of kin on all his will,Now the most perfect thing is that he can't spend a minute without seeing me or calling me,Am so grateful to priest grace for bringing back the happiness which i lack for years,Please contact priest grace for help he is a trustworthy man Gracerelationshipspell@gmail.com

who will believe that a spell will being back six years divorce, it all happen when i was about to give birth to my first child, when my husband left me because of another girl, then i think the world has come to an end because he was always mad at me, even when i called, and i don't want to bring up a child without a father, i did all I could but there was no hope, the more i try the more everything get complicating i was so confuse, one day i went through the internet i saw a testimony writing by someone how DR RAMAN help him get his ex back i follow up, after the spell casting my husband came back begging for forgiveness today we have three more children, to me we are the best couple in town, please if you need his help contact him with his email, ramansolutiontemple@gmail.com thank you DR RAMAN for your good work GOD will bless you for me. ramansolutiontemple@gmail.com

My Name is Stacey Fernandez, From Canada I wish to share my testimonies with the World about what Dr Asije has just done for me ,This great man brought my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell within 24 hours. I was married to my husband Alans Evans, we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email(drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com)then you won’t believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared cast a very strong spell for me and bring my lost husband back within 24hrs, and after a month I miss my monthly period and went for a test and the result showed that i was pregnant. i am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Asije for what you have done for me.Contact him on his private email drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com if you are out there passing through any of this problems or predicaments in your life. his private website is http://drasijesolutionhome.webs.com

1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.
(10)if you want to stop your divorce.
(11)if you want to divorce your husband.
(12)if you want your wishes to be granted.
(13) Pregnancy spell to conceive baby
(14)Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
(15)Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart.
once again the email address is drasijesolutionhome@gmail.com contact him immediately or contact through his website at http://drasijesolutionhome.webs.com

I want you to hear a good testimony of the great love Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com) who help me on my time of problems, My name is Joyce and i am from France and i am married with 2kids and i had a lovely family before before all the problem i want to share with you happened,my husband use to be very caring and lovely to me and my kids and we were very happy with each other,until a day and we where having a dinner in one of the restaurant in our state and their was a lady who was sitting close to us and i never knew she was interested to have my husband and due to i was with my husband she could not do anything there then after that day,my husband started to maltreat us at home not knowing that he his seeing that lady until a friend came to told me and i confirm it my self it really hurt due to the love we shared before,it really affected me until a friend who came from Africa told me about the powers of Africa spell Doctors specially Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com,even if i did not believe in spell i had nothing but to try and to my greatest surprise my husband came back home and beg me and now we are living more happy than before please you all should come together and thanks these great Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com,He can also help you if you believe in him and these is contact: http://odigelovespellsolution.webs.com/,thanks thanks once again

This spell changed everything for me. I am sure you get that alot. I always believed it would work because the other spells that you did for me were so brilliant I had no doubts. But when it actually happened and the way it did – I just never believed I could have such happiness. I owe you an incredible debt. Thank you for being my friend, confidante and most honest witch. I love you, love you, love you for making my life worth living again, Dr. Lametu of the Ancientspiritualtemple@gmail.com !

I joined a church and fornicated with one of the leaders.i v prayed for forgiveness and also forgiven myself but even after a year now i feel so guilty that i wish to stop and join another church to start it all over.cos i cannot stand d mere sight of this leader and wat happened btwn us. i ve not be going to church for a year now. pls help.

Good Day everybody, my names is joyce, am from the Switzerland, i want to give thanks and honor to Dr. Ogudugu for the great work he did for me, he brought my lover within 24 hours which i never taught it will ever come through in my life, but this great man Dr. Ogudugu proved to me that powers can do wonders, i got his contact from a friend who he helped, this friend of mine told me that this man is great but i felt as hmm are you sure? cause i hardly believe those kind of things,so she told me not to worry that when i contact him, that she is guarantee me 100% that my lover will come back that if it does not work that she will be the one to give me back my money, to show her sincerity to me, she gave me her car that if it does not work that and she did not pay me the money that i spent that she i should collect her car and she gave me all the documents, i was so so surprised she was very serious about it so that was how i contacted him and i told him what i want he just told me that everything will be done within 24 hours so with the assurance my friend gave me i was having confident, so in the next 24 hours that he told me i just heard a knock on my door i never knew it was mark, so that was how i opened the door the first thing he did was to go on his knees, he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgived him and now we are living together happily than ever before, and am using the media to invite my friends on my wedding which will coming up on 24/12/2013, am very happy thanks be to Lucy who gave me his contact and honor be onto Great DR.Ogudugu who helped a lot, if you need his help or you want to thank him for me you can contact him through his email address oguduguspelltemple@gmail.com

I lost my 6 years marriage during June. My husband left me with so many pains and since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contact 9 spell casters and 9 of them has rip me off my money without any result. I have emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster till i was directed by a 32 years old woman to WISE INDIVIDUAL SPELL At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items, it took him two weeks to convince me and something occur to mind and i said let me give him a trial.I was very shocked when Jeff called three days after i sent Dr Zack Balo the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i am very happy that we are together today because he proposed to me last night. I will advise you contact Email: wiseindividualspell@gmail.com

I don't know how you did it, but you did it. My man came back within a
week after you did the Ultimate Return My Love Spell x 3. He finally
dumped that other woman. He said he couldn't stop thinking about me.
He said he was thinking about me everyday NON-STOP! I still can't
believe it. I wish I found you earlier before I paid so much money to
other sites and spell-casters. We are going to a concert tonight and
this month we are going to Las Vegas, I think it's a surprise, because
he's been talking about marriage lately. thanks to oluwakemi you
can contact on his email oluwakemiprosperityspell@live.com or call +2348103508204

My ex-boyfriend dumped me 4 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. once again thank you Ekaka spell. you are truly talented and gifted Email: ekakaspelltemple@yahoo.com is the only answer he can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man


i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted traditional spell hospital for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he traditional spell hospital casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you traditional spell hospital for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact traditionalspellhospital@gmail.com. and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay

My name is Angelica. I want to testify the great work of Dr.Zack Balo for helping me to get my Ex boyfriend and my job back.I thank Dr.Zack Balo for helping me to recover all what i have lost before back,this is why I said I must tell the whole world, what he did for me is real, if you need his help you can contact him via wiseindividualspell@gmail.com.

I want to share this testimony in fulfillment to my vow to
the prophet that helped my case. i was happily
married for 4years and blessed with two children some how i
got into some troubles with my husband issues that He would
overlook before He beat me up and left me and the kids
leaving us with no source of revenue i tried several means to
get him back yet no positive outcome. After a while i was
left with no option than to request for a divorce even though
i loved him like my life. Because he had some connections he
turned me down until i read an article were a woman gave a
testimony on similar issue so i contacted the prophet who
helped me with the case and i won it. I decided to testify so
that people can also gain from me the way i gained from that
article i read so here is the prophets email in case you have
any problem or similar case. prophetjakula@gmail.com

My name is joy and I base in USA...“My life is back!!! After 1 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called High Priest ADODO which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Sonia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 7 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped High Priest ADODO 's e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. High Priest ADODO is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try High Priest ADODO anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact:{adodospelltemple@gmail.com}.

I am Jessica Mike, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank Okpoko for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found (Dr.okpokospellhome@gmail.com ) a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in one day after the spell has been cast. 1 day later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 3 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. Okpoko released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my fiance is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to Okpoko for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. email him on; Dr.okpokospellhome@gmail.com I love you farther so must. To make me happy again.

I WANT TO THANK GREAT DR IGBERASE 2ND FOR HELPING ME WITH MY LOST HUSBAND DEVIS HOLLYWOOD...
Dr Igberase is like a father to the fatherless.. i never believed these will really make a change in my marriage, and i never have it in my thought that i could ever been with my husband Mr Devis after divorcing and ending our 33years marriage.... My life was upset i never knew where to start from when my husband broke up with me.....My name is Tanisha Davis from Poland but got married and live in Chicago USA, igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com is the right email address to contact for an urgent help in getting your lover back.... My husband and I have been together for 33years before he divorced me and i was so upset because i thought i have lost my marriage forever... i did all i could to please for my husband to bring me back home but all to be in vain.. i had to traveled away from my state because i was not having anywhere to stay because my home was not conducive for me to stay because my husband want me out of the house, i travel to a friend of mine in California, one night, when i was searching on a good spell caster results that help in bringing back lost lover's and husband's, i found an interesting story that was shared by Santana Valdez From Texas Huston, about a good spell caster called Dr Igberase,and how he helped her in getting her husband back home, and i decided to put a try in contacting him... he replied me back.. i thought at first these was just normal and he told me that i was going to get back my husband after a period of 28hours i still doubted him.... But today as i am sharing these good news is for me to express my experience to all the whole universe that these is a good spell caster that helps in bringing back lost lovers and he is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) I am happily with my husband and my 3 kids, TARRY, WENDY, JEFF... great Igberase i thank you for helping me to get my family back.... his email address is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) Thanks, From Tanisha Davis
, Igberase is my Grandfather because he was always there for me when i needed him mostly and he is the reason why i am happy today.


After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called EZE MALAKA and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: extremewhitelovespell@yahoo. com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS WEBSITE ADDRESS is http://extremewhitelovespell.webs.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

Greetings to every body that is reading this testimony
Me and my boyfriend were seriously in love for six years and we were planning to get married but one day he came to my house and told me he was no longer interested in our relationship simply because he was dating another rich lady who promise to buy him a car and to sponsor their wedding. And i suffer heartbreak for seven months and i was not tired of loving him.so i take a bold step by contacting a spell caster who help me bring my ex boyfriend back. he is powerful and great his contact is Kumalovespell@gmail.com you can also contact him for help

Hello friends i want to share my testimony and how greatful i'm since my lover came back
to me because of the grate help Dr malaw
racum whose email address is spellofsolutiontemple@gmail.com render to me. my boyfriend broke up with me first week of july this year because he thought i was cheating on him, he told me that his friends has been telling him that i have been seeing someone else when he is not around i tried to make him understand that his friends are lieing to him but he did not give me the chance to explain to him this was how he left me. after a month of our breakup i tried to live a normal life without him but it was very hard for me to cope then i decided to contact dr malawi racum via his mobile number +2348072371282 and his email address spellofsolutiontemple@gmail.com which i came accross this months september 12th during my search looking for help how to get my lover back he cast a love spell for me and make my lover to come back to me within the period of 48hours. with this grate joy in my heart i want to say a big thanks to Dr malaw racum he is the best spell caster and he is the best solution.

After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called EZE MALAKA and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: extremewhitelovespell@yahoo. com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS WEBSITE ADDRESS is http://extremewhitelovespell.webs.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

Dear friends, my name is Drake Berry from united states i had a problem with my husband 2years ago, which lead to our break up. when he broke up with me, i was not my self again, i felt so empty inside me. until a friend of mine Walt Pen told me about a spell caster who helped him in the same problem too. i email Dr SHAVAI the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. before i knew what was happening my husband gave me a call and told me that he was coming back to me in just 2days and was so happy to have him back to me. we have two kids together and we are happy with our selves. thanks to priest SHAVAI for saving my relationship and for also saving others own too. continue your good work the great spell caster email address :shavaispellhome@yahoo.com


i from USA i want to share my testimony with the world and also thank a great man called dr malawi racum for bringing joy into my life. it started like this,i hard a true lover celled James brown who promised to love and marry me,we both lived peacefully. one day he met a girl celled Betty and he loved her very much and decided to follow her living me behind,i tried all my effort to make him come back to me but he still decided to be with her.one day i saw an old friend of mine that told me about a great man celled dr malawi racum by name and i said let i give it a try and i contacted him, he told me what i am to do and i did exactly as he said, before the next 48 hours my ex lover came back to me if you need the help of this great man you can reach him on his email address SPELLOFSOLUTIONTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM or contact his cell phone number +2348072371282

Hi Dr Lee. It's Cherrie again. I just wanted to let you know that it all happened as you said it would. I had to be a little patient, but it was so worth it. John called me last night and told me he's been thinking of me for the past few weeks, but hasn't had the nerve to call until now. He apologized and said he was still in love with me and wanted to try again, but he hoped that I could forgive him for not realizing it earlier. I am so happy, I can't believe it! Thank you so much! I will be ordering another spell from you soon - but not for love, this time for money. The love thing is all working out fine now! Thanks a lot for your help! Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

Hi Dr Lee. It's Cherrie again. I just wanted to let you know that it all happened as you said it would. I had to be a little patient, but it was so worth it. John called me last night and told me he's been thinking of me for the past few weeks, but hasn't had the nerve to call until now. He apologized and said he was still in love with me and wanted to try again, but he hoped that I could forgive him for not realizing it earlier. I am so happy, I can't believe it! Thank you so much! I will be ordering another spell from you soon - but not for love, this time for money. The love thing is all working out fine now! Thanks a lot for your help! Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com


Claudia

I never believed in spell casting, but My friend convinced me and i had no
choice than to follow my friend advice, because i never dreamed of loosing
my lovely Husband. And i contacted him with his email address,and i
discussed with him all my problems and worries and so surprisingly,he told
me that I’ll get my husband back a day after. I didn’t believed him, until
when i got home,the next day, my husband called me to inform me that he is
coming back home…..So Amazing!! That’s how i got my back through spell
casting and our relationship was stronger than ever. One of the price i was
asked to pay was to tell it to the people around me that problems like
this, can always be solved by Dr. Kpelede So! my advice to you out there is
to visit this same E-mail address,and tell him your problems too,if you are
in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back or and
problem at all, pleas Contact him and have a happy life. You can contact
him via email Kpeledesolutiontemple@gmail.com or +2347038111854

I and Jeff has been together for 2 years. we have been living happily without any problem. I always discuss about marriage with Jeff but he replies me with, we will soon get married. I was surprise one Friday evening when I was in my sister's house, Jeff called me on phone and told me that we can no longer carry on with the relationship because he has find himself somelse whom he want to get married to. I was shocked and hospitalize for some days. I was so tired and tried to get my life because without Jeff but it was impossible because i truly love him. One Sunday evening when i was searching online for help, I was directed to Dr.Grant whose email is grantingheartdesiresspell@gmail.com i contacted him and he was able to bring back Jeff back to me within 3 days. Reach Dr.Grant via email on ;grantingheartdesiresspell@gmail.com Dr.Grant brought back my happiness.


my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him….. he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my peter came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr obo spell, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email: obolovespell@GMAIL.COm

I am Miss Lucy Hollywood., From united states of America.I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS Dr. DAHIRU TEMPLE. My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now.. I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is : arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost ok..Thanks


My name is Mrs joyce from united kingdom i got married at the age of 30 i have only one child and i was living happily .After 5 year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don't really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dreams of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called PRINCE AYAWU, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him the great doctor. I contacted him And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 4 days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again.So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address templeofgreatness@gmail.com if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems contact him.
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My name is joy and I base in USA...“My life is back!!! After 1 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called High Priest ADODO which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Sonia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 7 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped High Priest ADODO 's e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. High Priest ADODO is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try High Priest ADODO anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact:{adodospelltemple@gmail.com}.

My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We have being having sexual intercourse year after year. I thought I was a loser, a weakling. I couldn't believe I couldn't handle pain. I always thought "how come everyone can do it but me? What is wrong with me?" I felt I was the only one in this world that had this problem. One day my husband came home and showed me this website he had printed out. It was about vaginas and pages and pages of women sharing their stories and testimony on how a spell caster help them make babies, MY STORIES!!!! I started crying like a little baby. I couldn't believe I wasn't the only one in this world. I was not a wimp, I really had a problem. To make my very long story short, i decided to contact this spell caster Dr zogo on his email zogospellcasters@gmail.com after interaction with him he instructed me on what to do, after then i had sex with the man I love most in this world, within the
next one months i went for a check up and my doctor confirmed that i am 2weeks pregnant and so happy!!! and My husband was the one that found the site, who I will always be thankful to, not for finding it but for believing in me and not leaving me. And thank YOU Dr zogo for saving my marriage. Thank you so much. To all those women out there, contact this great spell caster on this email zogospellcasters@gmail.com he can solve your problem and be patient and also believe in yourself. It will happen to you, just like it happened to me."

MY NAME IS JOY ;i will love to share my testimony to you all the people in world.i got married to my husband about 2 year ago we start having problems at home like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women out side.i have never love any man in my life except him.he is the father of my child and i don't want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to become what we are and have today.few month ago he now decided to live me and the kid,being a single mother can be hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn to and i was heart broken.i called my mom and explain every thing to her,my mother told me about DR.OLORUN how he helped her solve the problem between her and my dad i was surprise about it because they have been without each other for three and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each other.i was directed to DR.OLORUN on his email: OLORUNLOVESPELLHOME@gmail.com and explain everything to him,so he promise me not to worry that he will cast a spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love again and that it was another female spirit that was controlling my husband.he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK.So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive him.i Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact Dr OLORUN the great spell caster on his email address: OLORUNLOVESPELLHOME@gmail.com

This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man DR OLOKUM have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email: lavenderlovespell@yahoo.com

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